Barbara K. Gendel

Dearest Kevin, Kimberly and Chance, I am so saddened to learn of the death of your beautiful, smart and funny Mom. Barb was my friend, my mentor and balance during some rough times. I will always remember her laugh and her passionate love for life. May you hold her always in your hearts and souls, as I hold her in mine. She was truly "One Of A Kind" in every sense. The world was better with her in it. My love to you All.

What a wonderful tribute this is for Barbara. She is beautiful in every picture from each stage of her life and all the pictures of her with her grand-babies are so precious. She had such a significant impact on everyone in the family and was loved by so many people. Please know that I'm thinking of you all and I'm sorry to be far away during this time. Sending love to all of you there. Emily

Dear Kim, My condolences on the loss of your beautiful mom. (You look like her!) I lost my Mom last November and I feel the same ache you must be feeling now. Please know that your Mom loved you and was proud of you. Hugs and my love to you, too Carolyn (from water aerobics at Cottonwood heights recreation center)

My beautiful, "wicked" and fun step-mother! What a difference you made in my life. I was lucky and grateful to live with you and Dad for my first year of high school. You taught me so much and we laughed so hard. Thank you for being someone I could look up to and admire. You really were someone unique and wonderful in small ways and large. I learned to enjoy and love family life because of you. You were delighted when I was happy and understanding when I wasn't. What a lovely role model. Thank you for giving me a whole new view of what is important in life. We had fun is what I remember most. To Kevin, Kim and Chance I am so sad not to be with you but you are all in my heart and your Mom will be there forever. Love to all, Crissie

September 11, 2017 Thinking of you all! Renee Boudiette-King, Leawood, Kansas September 11, 2017 Kim, Kevin, Chance and grand children: Words can Not express my dearest Sympathy during these times. I am Kims bestfriend from sixth grade so you all probably don't remember me. Your mom was a very,loving caring, sincere person to me for many years while I lived there. She took me in as one of her own and would always had talks with me with words of encouragement. She was an inspirement. You all meant the world to her. I know there are no words at this time that can make things easier, except knowing how much you all meant to her. I'd like to say things get easier, but it doesn't. Try to remember the good times and know that the he eyes brightened to room when one of you came in to visit. Wish I was closer, hope you can all feel my love from away. I will be thinking and praying for you always Renee' Boudiette-King, Leawood, Kansas September 10, 2017 Kim I'm so sorry for the loss of your beautiful mother. I have thought about her many time over the years since I worked with her at Nordstrom. I lost track of her and new she was in Las Vegas so since I'm now in Mesquite I wanted to see if I could find her. We had a lot of fun time during and after work. Thank you for share all these wonderful pictures My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family. Sue Margetts West September 10, 2017 Mom, It's one thing reading the obituary's on Sunday mornings however seeing your beautiful face today brought me to my knees.... I wanted more time with you to catch up on all that was on my bucket list with you.. I can't believe how you truly worked yourself to death,until now... You lived a fairy tale life and defiantly deserved it.... I hope I made your life the past few years a little Worth hanging on. I was so proud of your grace and beauty my whole life and wanted the same for you until the end... Thank you for ALL you did for our entire family to make our life a memorable one. I know your in heaven with so many that truly loved you.... Give Dad a kiss for me and tell him all about the new TEXIE in our family to carry his name and little Braevon RAY,Hartley Rose and Harper Jaz.... He loved babies.. I saw this beautiful smile and knew Harold would be there with his hand out... Love you and thank you for being a Great example in my life. Love you to the moon and back! Kimbo......

What a thrill it has been to have this beautiful woman as my mother in law. Our time was short but full of sweet memories and love. You took me and my boys into your home and heart without hesitation. You shared your fun stories and gave inspiring words of wisdom to us . We could always count on your sweet smile and hugs to greet us. I will cherish the moments we shared alone as you would talk to me about my darling husband Kevin. Your support and love for our marriage made difficult times easier and fun times even more fun. You were more than a mother to Kevin you were his best friend, cheerleader, partner, biggest fan and arms of comfort through thick and thin. I believe that all people are put into our lives for a reason. You my dear gave me the love of my life and my promise to you is I will be there for him just the way you always were. We will honor your memory each and every day living our life to the fullest, laughing often, loving deeply, and being each others best friends now. Keep watch over us sweet Gladys we won't let you down. "Yee haw! Lupe Taylor

Hi Kevin and Kimmie and Chance, It's been along time since we were playing together as little kids, watching golfers, and eating your Mom's great taco's. Our path's crossed a few times here and there over the years, but it's been a while! Your mom was one of my favorites!!! Sorry I cannot attend the celebration event. I hope you all are doing well! All the best, Todd Cook

My dear friend Barbara, you were truly the most fun and caring person ever. I have loved you since the first day I met you. You were the only person who could do my hair so perfectly. I love your family, Grant, Bette, and your sweet mother. Your children Kevin, Kimberly and Chance are so blessed to have you as their Mother. My memories with you will always hold a special place in my heart. I'm so sorry I cannot be to your celebration of life event, I send my love to your family at this time. Jo (Cook) Winston. Todd and Traci send their best also.