Nancy Jean May

Dear Ashley, We are so sorry. We have such fond memories of your parents. Of their watching you play Para league basketball (undefeated!) and soccer. Of laughing so hard with Nancy during wonderful evenings that magical summer in Cesenatico. We are sorry we did not stay closer as all our daughters grew up and some moved away. We can only imagine how much your hearts are breaking. Our love to you and Alex and Danielle and Mike and your families. Kathy McD and Mike Murray

Ashley, I was shocked to hear on TV of your parents' passing. I remember your mother so well. She was always so active in supporting the Judge girls' swim team. I know you will miss them both tremendously. May God continue to comfort you, your brother and sisters during this very difficult time.

Mike, Danielle, Ashley and Alex You probably do not remember us, but My husband Mitch and I shared many wonderful and hilarious times with your parents. I worked with your Mom at Color My Nails for 5 years. We formed a bond that stayed strong. I loved her so much. Mitch and I were lucky to have spent time with them at Tahoe. We will cherish those memories. We hold you all in our hearts Your parents were so proud of you all, so happy for the love you all found and worshiped their grandchildren. If we can help in any way, please email me. Do not hesitate. Our hearts are breaking with yours. We are so sorry

Ashley and Alex, I am so sorry for your loss. I can't imagine how hard this has to be. You had the best mom! Working with your mom at the salon for so many years was so fun. So many great times we shared. God bless you all! Jamie

Ashley and Alex: I am so so sorry for your loss, I can't imagine what you are going through. I worked with Your Mom for many years at Color my nails and I also babysat you both a lot and would sleep over while they traveled: your Mom loves you so much and always wanted your hair perfect in a page boy cut, I remember that because I would have to take you to get it cut. Your Mom was so funny and very caring, when I got married she would tell me she thought it was like a fairy tale.. I have not talked to her in a while, but I could see through FB how much she loved her grandkids and whole family! I know that my Sister Monica greeted her with open arms. You are in my thoughts and prayers. Love Jolene

Dear Family, I was a new friend to Nancy, one of the women committed to riding on the back row at spinning class at the JCC. She was a lovely person, very warm and quietly friendly. I am so sorry for your loss.

Ashley and Alex, I am so sorry for your loss. Your parents were wonderful people. I have so many fun memories of them from the soccer days. Your mom was so funny, since I have had chickens she would always send me facebook messages about different things involving chickens! She was so kind :)

I am so deeply sorry for the passing of your Mother and Father. I've know Nancy for a long time, we were tennis partners in league. She was a grunter! But such a lovely player, fun and fair on and off the court. Even when she was hitting me, her partner, on HER serves! I remember you girls coming to some of our matches at Liberty Park. Your support of her was a pleasure to see. I also was involved in ITA and know the love she had for animals and her rescues. She will be greatly missed. I hope your many great memories of her and your family will give you much comfort at this extremely difficult time. With love and concern, Pat

Alex, There aren't any words I can offer you that will make what you are going through easier. I've been trying and trying to think of some. Just know that there isn't a day that goes by that I haven't thought about you countless times. I am there for you guys if you need anything. Please don't hesitate to ask. Seriously, I would love to be able to help in any way. Even if that's to take you guys out, have you over, or drop off a dinner or movie. Just name it. Maybe a hug. Hugs are better than words anyway. Take care of yourself. Hope you have some good days coming your way soon, and know that you've got a ton of people thinking of you and more than happy to help. Your friend, Steve Wood