Brenda Duke Holm Fish

April 5, 1942 - January 23, 2021

Our beloved mother, wife, sister, grandmother and dearest friend passed away at the age of 78.

Brenda was born in Salt Lake City, attended South High School, and worked at Mountain Bell for decades.
She was a devoted member of Holladay United Church of Christ where she was active in community projects and made life long friends. She was passionate about many community organizations, including The Sharing Place, women’s and youth homeless resource centers, and The Stephen Ministries.  

Brenda was creatively talented and involved in many projects, quilting, watercolor, gardening. She loved her yoga groups, book club and could be found daily walking with her cherished dog chatting with every neighbor along the way. She made friends easily and everywhere and cherished them always.

She leaves behind a heartbroken family, husband Lou J. Fish, daughter Jennifer Holm Prochazka, son Bevan Holm, brother Tom Duke (Julie), step daughter Stephanie Foster (Kyle U. Foster), granddaughters, Ryann Kylee Foster and Emerson Elizabeth Foster.

A celebration of life will be announced in the Spring.

In lieu of flowers please donate to one of Brenda’s favorite causes.

In Loving Memory

I was so sad to hear of Brenda’s passing. We met while walking our dogs and had many delightful conversations. She was a beloved presence in the neighborhood.

Mary Koester

nan, nan

So sorry to hear of Brendas passing. Going to miss chatting with her and Milly when they would pass our house on their daily walks. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all during this difficult time. May the beautiful memories of Brenda outlast the sadness. ❤️

Wes and Traci O’Nash

Holladay, Ut

I'm so sad to hear of Brenda's passing. She was so delightful walking her dogs and chatting with all of us in the neighborhood. Remember the good times they will carry you through.

Mary Nielsen

Salt Lake City, Ut

To All of Brenda's Family, She was a sweet gentle soul whom I will miss so much - many great shared memories such as the Parliament of World Religions, mountain hikes, her beautiful handwork made especially for us, Stephen Ministry and long coffee hour chats. Rest in peace, Sweet Brenda.

Laura Osburn

Salt Lake City, UT

To Lou, Jenn, Bevan and all who loved Brenda. We will all miss her so very much. Such a sweet and treasured friend with so many talents. I have so many memories and they are all good and lasting. She was my soul sister. With tears in my heart and joy in my soul for having known her. You are loved. My sincere condolences. Edah

Edah A Shuttleworth

Carlsbad, CA

I was so sorry to hear of Brenda’s passing. She was such a cheery presence in our neighborhood. We both had doxies and shared our love of them, when I would see her walking her dogs.

Carol Salee

Holladay, Ut

Sorry to learn of Brenda's passing. Nice lady. I have known the family for many years. God Bless. Ralph Norris

Ralph Norris

Sandy, UT

Brenda was one of the best next door neighbors we could ask for and always generous with her homegrown tomatoes and zucchinis. We loved chatting with her about our days and will miss her so so much.

Erica Lee, Christine Dang, and Kasey

Holladay, UT

I am heartbroken at the thought that my Brenda is gone and I will not get to hug her on my trips to Salt Lake City. She is such a huge part of my young adulthood and She, Jenn, and Bevan hold a very special place in my heart. Rest in comfort, dear friend! I love you and your precious family oh so much!

Lori Gardner

nan, nan

So sorry to hear of her passing, we were friends for a long time . Tom, please let me know when the Celebration is. Marty

marty sammond

salt lake city, UT

You were an inspiration to everyone with the goodness that you spread. Your charity and positive outlook made the world a better place. Will miss you forever and the wonderful talks we had and our card games. Ryann and Emerson grandma talked to me about you a lot and was so proud of you. Brenda thank you for being my sister of the heart . Rest In Peace as you well deserve. We love you, Jim and Pat

Pat and Jim Norton

West Jordan, Ut

Janet and I were sad to here of Brenda's passing. When ever we would meet she would greet us with kindness and friedship. She will be greatly missed.

Vernon Little

Farmington, UT

Lou and Family. We are so sorry to hear of Brenda's passing. We always enjoyed both of you in conversation as we passed each other on our walks. So many times we would converse in your driveway or ours. Dachshunds brought us together years ago. We will miss her so much. Weldon and Fred

Weldon Nichols / Fred Beckett

Holladay, Ut

Tom, Julie and Brenda's friends and family. I can only imagine the hole you each feel in your hearts loosing Brenda. She was a delightful, caring and talented women. She was my sister-in-law for over twenty years and I have fond memories times spent together with our families. My thoughts are with all of you in this trying time.

Virginia Duke

Mesquite, NV

I new Brenda through the Square Corners Quilters group. She was a delight and will be missed.

Connie Howard

Salt Lake City, u

Dear Lou and family, I was lou and Brenda's neighbor for 8 years living next door on the corner of fieldcrest and meadowmoor. Love them so much. I spent many a time having tea with them, Brenda always listening, caring, and sharing her thoughts. We laughed and cried over things. We loved the dogs, especially the weenie dogs but all of them had too much fun barking at the fence which made everyone crazy. I will always cherish their friendship, especially Brenda always leaving me treats, veggies, or a small tea towel or quilt with our dachshunds embroidered on them. I have missed them so much. I tried to reach out a few time since I moved in April 2019 but I think I only spoke with her once. I was back and forth all last year taking care of my mom who passed last August so I know all too well the heartache you are feeling. My friend just drove by my old house today only to see the for sale sign up at their home. I had no idea she passed in January. My heart goes out to Lou and family. She loved all of you so and was proud to tell me so. I would love to send Lou a note. If you get this message please txt me an address to send him a card. 8015973560. Please give Lou a hug for me. What special friends and neighbors they were. I will always remember them fondly. My heart goes out to you. Kind regards, Carol Hendrycks

Carol Lee Hendrycks

Knoxville, TN

I was very sorry to hear of Brenda's passing.  I met Brenda in '78 and worked with her in the DCPR group in engineering for a number of years.  She was a very interesting and talented person, and will be missed.  GOD speed her and hold her in Jesus's arms.

R. Glen Hultgren

Kearns, UT

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