Brian Thomas Durning

July 5, 1960 - August 1, 2016

Uncompromising integrity, dignity and grace best describe our husband, son, brother, uncle and friend Brian Thomas Durning. He was born on July 5, 1960 in Plainfield, New Jersey and died at his home in Holladay, Utah on August 1, 2016 from glioblastoma, a form of brain cancer. Brian was the fourth child born to loving parents Patrick and Joan Durning.

Brian received his undergraduate degree from Bucknell University in 1982 and his MBA from the University of Utah in 1991. He had a distinguished 33 year career at PacifiCorp, working most recently as a manager for PacifiCorp Energy. Brian was an avid Utes basketball and football supporter. He enjoyed watching track and field, gymnastics, swimming and diving. He was a lifelong athlete, and had been an accomplished runner.

Brian met Bryan Harman in June, 1998. They were committed partners for 15 years before they were able to marry on December 23, 2013, following the U.S. District Court ruling that established marriage equality in Utah. He cherished his husband, friends and family. He maintained his curiosity about the world and its people. He was meticulous.

Brian is survived by his beloved husband Bryan; his mother Joan, sisters Kathleen and Megan; brothers Patrick (Marion), Michael (Julie), and Peter; Bryan's children Alisa and Derek; his nephews; and a host of friends and coworkers. Brian is preceded in death by his father Patrick.

A celebration of Brian's life will be held on Thursday, August 25, 2016 from 6:00 p.m. to 8:00 p.m. at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, Salt Lake City. Guests are encouraged to use the complimentary valet parking provided on the north side of the building.

Brian's husband and family wish to thank the doctors, nurses, and staff at the Huntsman Cancer Institute for their compassionate care, as well as their collection of Bruce Springsteen music. They also hope that in lieu of flowers, contributions may be made to: Huntsman Cancer Foundation, 500 Huntsman Way, Salt Lake City, Utah 84108.

 

 

 

 

 

In Loving Memory

Dearest Bryan and Family, With heavy heart I see Brian's picture and know he is free from pain. I am so sorry for your loss. Bless You, Mary

Mary Crowther

Salt Lake City, Ut

Thanks to the family and friends who supported this person through out his life. He gave great service to many known persons and many unknown to him. R.B.

Robert Bennion

Las Vegas, nv

Dear Bryan and Family, My heart aches for you and I hope you find peace and comfort. I'll always be grateful for the love, humor, and kindness Bryan and Brian have shown to me. All my love and best thoughts, Wendy

Wendy Ajax

nan, nan

Bryan and Family, May you find comfort and peace in the memories of Brian during your life together. Bryan you are in my thoughts and prayers. Take Care, Veronica

Veronica Christensen

Taylorsville, UT

Bryan, I'm sorry sorry I'll will miss Brian's funeral. I wish I could have told him goodbye. :( Thank you, my friend, for being the best partner/spouse anyone could ask for. Brian was so lucky to have you by his side. I hope you're recovering peacefully from this huge loss. Big Hugs! Michelle

Michelle Turpin

Salt Lake City, UT

Bryan we're terribly sorry, Brian was such a great guy - he will be missed. We are sending you big hugs and much love, and wishing comfort to you, yours and Brian's families.

Brian Hogan and Scott Monson

Hollywood, Ca

Bryan, The world lost a wonderful human being this month. So sorry for your loss, you two were a great partnership. It's comforting to know Brian is no longer in pain. His humor and kindness lives on in our thoughts.

Lezlee & Mike Gorey

Holladay, UT

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