Dennis Wayne Gay

September 22, 1946 - January 5, 2018

Dennis Wayne Gay passed away on January 5, 2018 in Newport Beach, California, a state he had a great affinity for, next to the Pacific Ocean that he loved to walk beside. He left peacefully, surrounded by his children, as well as his beloved wife and true companion, Gay. 
Dennis was born in 1946 and raised in the most humble circumstances in Coushatta, Louisiana. He grew up in a shack of a home with eight people and only an outhouse. In 1961, when he was 15, his family moved from Louisiana to Payson, Utah, where his parents, Bryant and Elaine Gay, purchased the Polar King restaurant in Springville, Utah. They grew Polar King into a beloved restaurant and were the inspiration for Dennis' incredible work ethic. Dennis attended Payson High School, where he loved sports and played on the basketball and football teams. During this time he fell deeply in love with something that many might consider the longest love affair of his life: cars.
Dennis was a car guy. If you aren't a car guy then you just don't get that. If you are, then you do, and Dennis loved every aspect of them: their designs, mechanics, smells, sounds. It was this love that led him to the mechanical engineering program at Brigham Young University.
Dennis had a younger brother named Alvin who served in the Vietnam War. He was a helicopter gunner, and on April 1st, 1969, while rescuing fellow soldiers, Alvin was shot and killed. Dennis was heartbroken, and he loved and cared for Alvin's son Troy Gay throughout his life. Troy said at Dennis's passing, "Dennis was the man I trusted most in life." Dennis is now reunited with his kid brother.
After graduating from Brigham Young University, Dennis accepted a position with McDonnell Douglas in Long Beach, California designing and building aircraft carriers for the U.S. military. It was then that he fell for the peaceful, sunny, warm, Orange County coastline. He would ride his bike on the streets of Corona Del Mar, dreaming about living there one day. And indeed, he did. Dennis always believed you could make your own dreams come true, and he never stopped until he achieved his dreams.
Dennis and the wife of his youth, Sherry Hiatt, had five tremendous children. Three daughters, Gina (McKay) Daines, Kimm Humpherys, Haley (Tony) Blackett, and two sons, Bodee (Amber) Gay and Bucky (Kristy) Gay. From these children sprang 13 grandchildren who all love their grandfather deeply. 
He began his long and successful entrepreneurial career at age 30 buying Schwartz Lumber Land in Payson, Utah in 1977. Many ups and downs in business lead him to a love of real estate, and he became increasingly successful building many government buildings around Utah.
Dennis married Gay Madsen Phillips in 1990 and they were sealed in the Provo LDS Temple. Their union became one of the greatest examples ever of love and support and caring. As the years have rolled by it's become impossible not to think of them always together. They were a team, a real team, and an extraordinary companionship that lifted and buoyed each other, and nurtured and supported each other and their combined families.
Gay had four wonderful children she brought into Dennis's life, Pam (Kevin) Hanks, Todd (Jill) Phillips, Joe (Jolene) Phillips and Lori (Jeff) Hansen. Their families gave Dennis and Gay another 17 grandchildren.  
Dennis lent office space to an expert in herbal research and formulating who asked him for business advice. In 1992, this lead to the launch of Basic Research, a Utah company that has successfully sold health and beauty products in over 50 countries around the world and employed thousands of people over the years.  Dennis often said that one of things he loved most about Basic Research is that it provided the means to support so many families.
Dennis was a man of sharp intellect who could calculate and ascertain a problem, challenge, or opportunity with remarkable clarity. He was also a man of questions; his engineering mind required him to seek to find answers. Anyone who knew him knew this unique aspect of his personality and how effective it was in always keeping things moving forward. Dennis created, was always on the move, always fixing something, working on something, in constant thought or action to get things done. His actions, hard and driven work ethic and energy blessed more people's lives than anyone really knows. There are undoubtedly thousands of people who owe their livelihood, successes, survival and prosperity directly to the ability of Dennis to study, design, create and implement.
One of the greatest highpoints in Dennis' life was serving for The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints as Branch President at the Wasatch Youth Correctional Facility. With Gay by his side, they reached out to many troubled youth with open hearts and all the resources at their disposal to help these young people move forward to a better life. Dennis and his great friend Gary Kehl created the blueprint for the State of Utah to partner with the LDS church in giving numerous troubled youth a second chance so they didn't end up back in the system. That blue print is still being used today.
In 2014 Dennis was diagnosed with Idiopathic Pulmonary Fibrosis (IPF), a scarring of the lungs that takes away the lungs' capacity to fill with oxygen. It is a brutal diagnosis, but Dennis was born and lived as a fighter and did not go down without a fight, a fact that everyone will always admire him for.  
Dennis was a member of the Church of Jesus Christ of Latter-Day Saints, where he held several positions including branch president, a member of the bishopric and gospel doctrine teacher. He leaves behind an enormous flock: His beloved eternal companion Gay Madsen Gay, 9 kids, 30 grandkids and 8 great grandkids as well as countless friends and associates who were family to him. Dennis was a great caretaker, a guardian, and a true patriarch. All of us who love him know with deep certainty in our hearts that he has only left this earthly sphere. We know that he will not only be with us in our hearts and thoughts and memories, but most importantly, that Dennis Gay will always watch over his flock, and we will see him again.

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider organ donation.  

Friends may greet his family on Sunday, January 14th from 5:00 until 7:00 PM at the Salt Lake Cottonwood Stake Center, 1830 East 6400 South.  A funeral service will be held on Monday, January 15th at 10:00 AM, also at the church, where friends may visit one hour prior to the service.  Private interment will be held at Springville Cemetery. 

 

 

In Loving Memory

I will be eternally grateful to Dennis and his amazing family for everything he has done for me and mine. Never a better hero. So much love and light to the family.

Kerry Pack Goodrich

BOUNTIFUL, UT

Gay, you must have had a wonderful life with Dennis Gay! Good for you !! I have many fun and neat memories of you and your kids here in the west mountain and payson area. Good luck and may you be richly blessed to deal with your next great challenge now. Love, Jerelyn and Tom Sorensen and family.

Tom and jerelyn sorensen

West mountain, Ut

Gay, my heart goes out to you at this tender time. I was so shocked to read Dennis' obituary. What a wonderful man - one of my favorite people ever. What a privilege to have known him and worked with him out at Wasatch. Memories I will always treasure!

Cindi Peckham

Salt Lake City, UT

Our sincerest condolences to the Dennis Gay Family

Walter & Kathy Tachiki

Payson, Ut

Dennis attended summer meetings with his sweet wife Gay, she and I were employed by the same company. He was a good sport and attended the "wives" activities while Gay attended her meetings. Very popular with the ladies. Dennis and Gay made a wonderful team and were fun and easy to be around.

Sam Mecham

American Fork, UT

Gina,Kim, Hailey, Bodee and Bucky our thoughts and prayers are with you and your families. We had every intention of being at the viewing and funeral. We both came down with colds or flu we haven't decided yet but for sure we weren't about to share it with you. I would have loved seeing you all". Just be glad we know what we know and we'll all be reunited again. I have fond memories of all of you...be happy in the memories you have of your dad and trust the Lord. Love you Gary and Sheila

Sheila and Gary Craghead

Payson, UT

There will never be another Dennis Gay. But what a great legacy he left. We feel so honored to have know him.

Dan and Freddie Fuller

Houston, Tx

Gay, I am so sorry for your loss. It looks like he treated you and your family well. I am so glad you found each other. From watching the video and reading his obituary he sounds amazing. I am so happy you had this blessing in your life. My heart goes out to you and your sweet family. Sending hugs, prayers and love. Gay

Gay Gladden

provo, UT

Gay, Sara and I were aware of Dennis' fight with a terrible disease, but were unaware of his passing until last Monday. We are very sorry and extend our love and condolences to you and your family. Dennis was such an amazing individual and it was an honor to have known him. Love, Sara and Roger Boyer

Roger and Sara Boyer

SALT LAKE CITY, Ut

Gay, we are so sorry at your loss, our thoughts and prayers are with you.

Jackie & Randy /christensen

Mona, Ut

Gay, I just learned of Dennis' passing. I am so sorry. I remember our last visit at Summit Creek, sitting in the show home. So much has changed since that day. Scott loved working with Dennis and had enjoyed their relationship for many years. I'm sure the two of them are continuing to work together on even greater projects, teaching the gospel beyond the veil. It's a challenge for those of us left behind. We dearly miss these wonderful husbands who were larger than life! Best wishes to you and your family Gay. Hugs, Jill Nuttall

Jill Nuttall

Springville, UT

I am the son of Mary and Judge Crawford on Coushatta Louisiana. I remember the family from years ago. We were kids back then but the memories are great. I think of the Gay family every time I go thru Springville and Provo. May God be with you till you /we meet again Joe Raymond.

Joe Raymond Lentz-Crawford

Vernal, UT

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