Joan Frances Washington Nabors

October 27, 1937 - April 7, 2025

Joan Frances Washington Nabors passed away on April 7, 2025, after a long battle with dementia. She was born October 27, 1936, in Minneapolis Minnesota to Charles and Johnnie Washington. In 1945, her mother, Johnnie, passed away when Joan was only 8 years old. After her mother’s passing, Joan spent her early years attending school in Tuskeegee, Alabama where she lived with her aunt Orie May Flood (Auntie), and summers in Dayton, Ohio with her father. Upon graduation from high school Joan attended Ohio University where she graduated in 1958 with a B.S. in Child Development – Family Living. She later went on and received her M.S. in Early Childhood Education from the University of Utah in 1984. If you knew Joan, you knew she had a passion for teaching and a passion for children. She taught preschool in Highland Park, Illinois for three years prior to moving to Salt Lake City, Utah in 1961 after getting married to her husband, Charles J Nabors Jr.

Joan continued her work as an educator after moving to Salt Lake. She trained daycare and Head Start teachers and developed a multicultural diversity curriculum for several school districts in the Salt Lake Valley. Shortly after working with Head Start, she was a preschool teacher at Holiday Preschool. In 1983, Joan co-founded the Salt Lake Institute for Learning where she enjoyed teaching children from kindergarten to the eighth grade until she made the decision to close the school in June of 2000. Joan had a profound impact on her students and many of them continued to stay in touch with her after the school closed. One student interviewed Joan in 2009, 10 years after he had graduated from the Salt Lake Institute and as the interview was coming to a finish, he said, “Joan has had a major influence not only on my life, but also on many people’s. I tell Joan that she has, in no uncertain terms, changed this world for the better.” Another student came to visit Joan in 2024 and told Joan that she (Joan) was the reason this former student became a writer. Joan’s influence and love of teaching will never be forgotten.

In addition to teaching, Joan started her Storytelling career in the early 1970’s. She along with a very close friend, created an interracial team and developed an African storytelling program to introduce children of all ages to the wonderful legends and folklore of Africa. They presented in libraries, classrooms and other venues. In 1990, Joan went to Kenya with a close family friend and her two sons and collected stores from women and children in the Nyeri district that she brought back and continued to share with children and adults whenever possible. Joan was a member of the National Association of Black Storytellers and in 2023 she received an award honoring the esteemed elders of the organization

Part of being a teacher for Joan was being part of the change. For Joan, being active in civil and political rights helped her be that change. It was about being responsible and doing her part to ensure people were treated fairly. Shortly after getting married and looking for housing in Salt Lake, Joan and her husband were denied housing because of the color of their skin. She was determined to do her part and help to change the narrative. Giving back to the community was also important to Joan and she continued to teach her children that giving back to your community in anyway, even if it seemed small, was an important part of who they are and what they stand for. Joan’s greatest love was spending time with family and her many friends, there were no social occasions or holidays she didn’t enjoy celebrating. She loved to entertain and loved to throw a party.

We want to thank the Wellington Senior Living facility and Canyon Home Health and Hospice for taking such amazing care of our mom over these past few days and weeks. To the team at Canyon, Erika, Mia, Terra, Stephanie, Aubrie, Nicol, Sarah and all the others who were there for mom and us, we say Thank You for what you do every day. You helped us to understand and navigate the difficult journey of dementia. The outpouring of love from both the Wellington and Canyon teams has been comforting during this difficult time.

Joan was preceded in death by her mother, father and stepmother, her husband and other family and friends. She is survived by her three children, Brian, Kelley and Matthew. We will miss you mama.

In lieu of flowers the family asks that you donate in her name to Utah Food Bank, Home – Equality Utah, Utah Chapter | Alzheimer’s Association, or the charity of your choice.

A celebration of life for Joan will be held on Saturday April 26th from 4 pm to 6 pm at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 S 900 E, Salt Lake City. Guests are encouraged to use the parking and entrance on the north side of the building.

In Loving Memory

Losing a mother is one of the deepest sorrows a heart can know. But her goodness, her caring, and her wisdom live on like a legacy of love that will always be with you. May the love surround you now and bring you peace. I know my words can’t ease your pain, but lm here lm thinking of you please accept my most heartfelt and deepest condolences. Love you,Sandra.❤️🙏

sandra shipman

Midvale, UT

I have fond memories of our families together in St. James' Church in the early years. The world has lost an exceptionally giving, capable, and caring person. My heartfelt prayers for all of you that your happy memories will help you through this sad time. May God give you His blessings of peace and comfort.

Betsy Tubbs

Holladay, Utah

I remember sitting in the living room with Chuck and Joan at various times i 1963 and 1965 planning civil rights actions, including meeting with the First Presidency of the LDS Church to ask for their support for civil rights. Joan made us fine meals while we strategized actions for the local NAACP. Later they helped me find enough money to participate in the Mississippi Freedom Summers . Congratulations on a life well lived and the courage to stand tall when times were tougher.

Stephen Holbrook

Salt lake city, Utah

Joan was such a wise, warm friend of my family. She and my parents bonded over their mutual activism, work in education and with the NAACP. The Nabors' lived just a few doors down from our house in Holladay and as a kid, I became fast friends especially with Kelley. I spent countless days running around their house - and then of course Mrs. Nabors (I would never call her "Joan") would insist I stay for dinner. I truly loved my time with all of them and remember those days fondly. I'm sending warmest condolences to Brian, Kelley and Matthew during this time of loss. Your mom was beloved by so many.

Margaret Traub

Los Angeles/Holladay, CA

On behalf of my Mom (Marlene), Please accept are most heartfelt condolences. My Mother loved Joanie and wishes she could have traveled from OH to visit her. When they met in Dayton, OH, Joanie declared that my Mother was her big sister. Needless to say, Mom accepted wholeheartedly. We are keeping the family in our hearts and prayers. With love, “the other” Kelly, Kim and big sister Marlene

Kelly Haley on behave of Marlene

Dayton, Ohio

This message is to Matthew. Matthew you won't remember me but my daughter was in the same preschool class as you at the Holladay Church. Your mother was also a teacher there too. We often car pooled together. You invited my daughter Terese Gaddis to your birthday party. It was so much fun for all the children. Your mother laughed because Terese picked out the birthday gift. I had many times very worthwhile conversations and visits with your mother. She even talked me into going to graduate school at the U of U and we met there many times. My daughter remembers you and how much fun you all had at the Holladay United Church of Christ. Thank you for being part of our life. You had a wonderful family and Im sure you still do. We will miss the memories of your parents and how much they accomplished with civil rights and NAACP take care.

Barbara Gaddis

Park City, UT

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