John Miles Ware
August 28, 1942 - November 25, 2021
John Miles Ware died unexpectedly on Thanksgiving morning while preparing for his family celebration. John had a most generous heart. With wide-open arms, he welcomed family and friends at the front door, at all hours, expected and not. Our hearts are broken, and we will miss him deeply, but we are comforted in knowing that he enjoyed his life to its fullest and truly loved those close to him.
John was born in Kansas City, MO on August 28, 1942 to Francis H. and Betty B. Ware.
He grew up in Salt Lake City and was in one of the first graduating classes at Highland High School, graduating in 1960.
Attending the University of Utah, he earned a B.S. degree in Political Science. Proudly affiliating with the Beta Theta Pi Fraternity afforded him lifelong friends. During his time at the U, he met Sally Thurman on a blind date, and they were inseparable ever since.
John and Sally were married on December 16, 1965, in Salt Lake City. John adored Sally with all his heart. They had an amazing partnership and marriage. Together, John and Sally built a beautiful, warm and welcoming home and a family that loved to do things together. They cultivated friendships in Salt Lake and around the world where they adventured. John’s close relationship with his children, Jennifer and Brian, their spouses Bill and Holly, and his four grandchildren filled him with joy. They were constant sources of pride, delight, and inspiration to John.
Professionally, John was an insurance broker, a founding principal of CWZ Insurance Managers and later a founding partner of InfiniTeam.
John had many hobbies but perhaps none more prominent than being an accomplished hot air balloon pilot from 1989 to now. He and Sally flew balloons all over the world, including France (for the French Bicentennial Celebration), Mexico, England, Czech Republic, and at the Albuquerque Balloon Fiesta. His family and Brian (as pilot) will continue this legacy. He was also a tailgate extraordinaire, a voracious reader, a competitive gin rummy player, beautiful skier, a scuba diver and gourmet cook.
He and Sally loved golfing with friends at Hidden Valley Country Club for many years and most recently at The Salt Lake Country Club. In 2020 he had his first hole-in-one!
Always wanting everyone to feel included and cared for, he loved bringing people together to celebrate and have a good time. While tending to food and drink for everyone, he also gave attention to each of us, asking about our life and what he could do to contribute. He was fiercely loyal, unpretentious, and always spoke his mind.
All his life, John was devoted to his favorite teams, but never more than for those of his children and grandchildren, cheering them on through the ups and downs, fair weather and foul. He could be found on the soccer sidelines, ski race hills, golf tournaments and various performances. Above all, he was proud of the team he formed with Sally over 56 years.
John is survived by his wife, Sally; children, Jennifer Gaskill (Bill), Brian (Holly); grandchildren, Sam and Savannah Gaskill and Nick and Camryn Ware; sister, Sharon Ware Crawley; brother-in-law Wally Thurman (Rita); sister-in-law Sura Hart; nieces Melissa Snyder, Hannah, Lydia and Abby Thurman, and Kyra and Marieka Freestar. In lieu of flowers please donate to your favorite charity or The Utah Food Bank by clicking the “Donate” link above.
Vaccinated friends are invited to celebrate John’s life on Thursday, December 16, 2021 from 6:00 PM until 8:00 PM at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, Salt Lake City. Guests are encouraged to use the parking and entrance on the north side of the building. He will be laid to rest at Wasatch Lawn Memorial Park.
In Loving Memory
John was an incredible person and an awesome friend. John offered his friendship with no strings attached, he was there to support and encourage. Sara and I will greatly miss John and offer our prayers and love to the family. Rest n peace John, y surly will be willed
George Hofmann
Salt Lake City, UT
I am so sorry to hear but inspired by the life you shared for so long. May there be peace and love felt in the gathering and in your heart. Blessings to his family.
Kelly Lowder
Aguadilla, PR
My condolences to the family.❤️
Elizabeth Andrich
Omaha, NE
Donna and I send our hearfelt condolences to Sally and the Ware family. John and I were friends in college and reconnected when we both were involved with the Good Will ambassadors of the Salt Lake Chamber of Commerce, the Salt Shalers. We shall miss him. Kent and Donna Yano.
Kent and Donna Yano
St. George, Ut
What a guy! My sincere condolences to Sally, Jenifer, and Brian. John has left a void in all of our hearts, especially yours. John established himself as my best friend many years ago and will remain such for the rest of my life. As true friends, we helped each other get into and out of trouble frequently, most of which was alcohol related. One of our favorite outings was to take our sons to "Hatts Ranch", a private pheasant hunting club near Green River, Utah. This was always followed by a stop at "Ray's Tavern" at days end for food, drink, and lots of serious pool table tournimonts. Then the next morning, we'd drag ourselves out of bed and do it all again. Good times had by all! Another favorite for Holly and I was to spend time at Lake Powell with the Ware family and ours. Plenty of laughs, serious card/board games at night, and lots of time tinkering with our boats during the day. Oh the memories. Some time ago, John and I made a pact; first one to die will save a seat at the local bar for the straggler, and of course, seats for Sally and Holly. John, I'm holding you to that! Rest in peace, my friend.
Rob Elliott
Sandy, Ut
Dear Sally. Bill and I were so shocked and saddened to read about John's sudden death. John was such a fun, happy and sincere man. He always had alot of people around him. Whether it was tailgating or wherever, John always seemed happy to see us and was interested in how our lives were. We are so very sorry for your loss and hope your wonderful memories will help you through these sad times. Bill and Gloria Garwood
Bill and Gloria Garwood
East Millcreek, UT
My heart goes out to you. You and John had wonderful adventures together. May God grant you peace and strength in the days to come. Karen Bettilyon
Karen Bettilyon
St. George, Ut