Mary Nancy Dee Lilly
February 15, 1941 - March 12, 2016
Mary Nancy Dee Lilly passed away peacefully at home on 12 March 2016 after a brief and valiant battle with breast cancer, surrounded by family and friends. Daughter of John Foley Dee and Catherine Giardina Dee, she was born in Massachusetts but grew up in Murfreesboro, Tennessee – she was truly southern by the grace of God. After studying fine art for two years, she took to the skies as a stewardess for Delta Air Lines, the start of a long career in the airline industry. In 1969, she married Robert Augustine Lilly, Jr. Together, they raised their two children, Catherine and Francis, and eventually settled in Salt Lake City, Utah. She is survived by her husband, both children, and her beloved grandson, Robert.
Nancy was a loving and devoted wife, mother, daughter, friend, and confidant. She embraced the world, travelled often, and brought love and light to those who knew her. She was an excellent gardener, a lover of art and music, the life of every party, an impassioned advocate for her family and friends, and the best travel buddy anyone could ask for. In the end, she exemplified extraordinary courage and grace in the face of terminal illness. Her family would like to thank all who cared for her in her last weeks, especially Mona Mafi, Good Shepherd Home Care and Hospice, and Dr. John K. Hayes and his colleagues at Gamma West Cancer Services.
A funeral mass will be celebrated in her memory at 11:00 am on 4 May 2016 at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 3015 E. Creek Road, Sandy, UT preceded by a visitation at 10:00 am at the church. In lieu of flowers, please consider donating to St. Jude Children's Research Hospital in Memphis, Tennessee, and traveling as much as your heart desires.
In Loving Memory
Our thoughts and prayers are wth you and the family, Bob. Nancy was an absolute gem. How blessed you were to have had so many years together. With much love.
George Starks Family
Anacortes, WA
Nancy was one in a million -- she had an infectious laugh, a sharp wit, and a heart of gold. Her memory will live on with us forever. God bless the Lilly Family.
Brad Gerbel
Coronado, CA
Having had the great fortune of knowing Nancy and working the airline industry with her since 1983, it's hard to imagine not hearing any more humorous anecdotes from or about her. She emanated happiness, joy and true class. We had serious discussions throughout the years about family and faith, work and play. I feel I am a better person from know knowing her.
Diane Chalmers
Cottonwood heights, Ut
Nancy was my dear aunt. Ever since I was a child my brothers and I called her "Crazy Aunt Nancy". She was full of life, laughter, love, and just plain fun. I willl miss her terribly and my love and prayers remain with my Uncle Bob (and godfather), and my cousins Frank, Cathy, and Robby. Take comfort that she's dancing joyfully with the angels.
Marianne Sheahan
Oshkosh, Wi
I have to ask who doesn't say Miss Lilly and smile. Joy Laughter Thoughtfulness Compassion Humor Love Sparkling Eyes Devious Looks. Always getting the most out of life while giving us all a reason to believe. Thank you Miss Lilly. We are better people because of you. My heart goes out to your sweet family that you love so much. Fly free of illness. You are an amazing example to all of us. You did it your way and gracious lady I would expect nothing less. Bob and family your Eastern Airlines family hold you in our hearts in honor of her.
Suzanne Love
West Jordan, Ut
Frank, Christine, Robert and family -- On behalf of the South Salt Lake Chamber (Frank is on the board), please know that you are in our thoughts and prayers. We have communicated with Frank since Mary's passing -- and, we will be at the service for Mary.
Gary BIRDSALL
South Salt Lake, Ut