Melezandra D. Pipella
July 3, 1954 - March 12, 2025

Our beloved Melezandra passed away comfortably at home, surrounded by her close family, on March 12th. Her last days were spent visiting with friends and loved ones and ultimately finding peace, having reached the end of her two-year battle with aplastic anemia.
Melezandra was born in Vallejo, California to her parents Ruby and Gilbert Lopez in the summer of 1954. She was the youngest of three children, following Mike as the eldest and Silvia as the middle child. When they were very little, Silvia started to call her Zsa Zsa, as Melezandra was too long and difficult to say. The nickname lasted the rest of her life. When young, her family spent many years living in naval bases along the California coast, then moved back to Salt Lake City, Utah where Ruby’s extended family lived. In Utah, much time was spent with aunts, uncles and cousins, creating lifelong friendships and cherished childhood memories.
In April of 1976, Zsa met Rodney Pipella while visiting their mutual friend at work. There was an immediate attraction, and they began dating shortly after. Rod and Zsa were married on September 16th, 1977 and were devoted to each other for 48 wonderful years. In 1978 they bought a small home and began to prepare for a family. December 1981 marked the beginning of motherhood for Zsa when she gave birth to their daughter Ale. Zsa was a warm, attentive and supportive mom and created a loving home and safe harbor.
Zsa had a great capacity to love and in November of 2012 this love only continued to grow when she became a grandmother to Leo. Leo immediately became the apple of her eye, calling her Yaya from Rod’s term of endearment. She dedicated a room in their home as a nursery, then classroom, where she and Leo spent many days together when he was small practicing letters, doing puzzles and just enjoying each other’s company. Her second grandchild, Adeline, was born in December 2019. Zsa took great joy in crafting and painting with Adeline and in showering her with many girly gifts.
Zsa routinely spent time with both her siblings and together they continued family traditions like fishing, camping and making home-made Mexican dinners. Zsa developed close relationships with two of her nieces, Mariesa and Christina as they became young adults. She and Mariesa spoke often, easily lending an ear to one another and conversing over life’s moments.
Zsa had a lengthy and successful career as an Administrative Assistant in several offices on campus at the University of Utah. Every office she was in, she easily became friends with her colleagues and created a more positive environment. Some of her colleagues became dear and lifelong friends, sharing many cups of coffee and long conversations over the years.
She enjoyed hiking and biking with Rod and their friends in their younger years and taking Ale on many outdoor adventures. Although she would never admit it, she was competitive and enjoyed bowling on several leagues with family and friends and playing Scrabble after family dinners.Everyone Zsa cared for felt well-loved. Zsa was easy to like, easy to talk to and a wonderful listener.
She was patient, thoughtful and trustworthy. She was kind, forgiving and gracious. Zsa was a beautiful person inside and out, she had great style and class and was not afraid to express herself with a bold lipstick.
Words cannot express how deeply her absence is already felt and how greatly she will be missed.
Zsa is preceded in death by her mother and father, Ruby and Gilbert Lopez and her mother and father in-law Ella and Mike Pipella, as well as her grandparents, aunts and uncles.
Zsa is survived by her husband Rod, daughter Ale (Chris), grandchildren Leo and Adeline, her siblings Mike (Kelly) and Silvia and her nieces and nephews as well as many cousins, family and friends who loved her dearly.
Please join us to honor her memory. A celebration of life will be on Friday, March 21st from 6-8 PM at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, Salt Lake City. Guests are encouraged to use parking and entrance located on the north side of the building.
Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday March 22nd at 12pm at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 3015 E Creek Rd, Cottonwood Heights. A Luncheon will follow from 1-3 PM.
In lieu of flowers the family requests donations be made to the Family Support Center in Taylorsville, https://www.familysupportcenter.org/.
In Loving Memory
I’ve known Melly since Jr. High at West Lake and again at Kearns High. We lost track and then she moved in four houses down from me a few years ago. She has always been so beautiful, kind, loving—and a special acquaintance. Love to her sweet family and especially to her sweet and attentive husband who took such loving care of her. I will miss you Melly. ❤️🩷
Yvette Evans
Taylorsville, UT
Dear Ale- I didn’t know your mom at all, but as I read about the wonderful woman she was, I feel like I can understand a little bit better why you are such a kind nurse and friend. I think you learned from the best. All my thoughts and prayers are with you and your family during this difficult time. Love, Jenny
Jenny Budd
Wooldridge, Missouri
Hi Zsa and Family, My heart is broken. This seems so unreal and unfair. Zsa has been our travel partner, lunch, dinner, shopping, hiking, house meals, work friend for over 20 years and it's hard to wrap my head around this. I told her often how much I loved her, and as her life neared it's end, I made sure she knew how important she was to me, Judy and especially Paulette. Lunch will always be in your honor and we will have a chair for you with coffee..... and cream and always, we will wait while you get out your mirror and put on the most gorgeous lipstick we have ever seen. Thank you for being the most amazing strong woman we have ever known. You might have been a little itty bitty Zsaie but you were a beast of a woman to contend with. Meet us for lunch! I love you sweet friend. Dianne
Dianne Cunningham
SALT LAKE CTY, UT
Sylvia and Family, I am so sorry for the loss of your dear sister. She sounds like an amazing woman who I am sure will be missed by many. May God give you the strength to get through this difficult time. I hope your wonderful memories bring you comfort. God Bless you and your family.
Nancy Bernstein
Sandy, UT
Rod, we were so sorry to hear about this. Please accept our condolences and know that we are thinking about you and your family. Gerry and Linda Etzold
Gerry Etzold
CROWNSVILLE, MD
I haven’t seen Melezandra since high school, but I remember her as such a sweet and loving friend. She was soft-spoken and kind, and easy to befriend. I’m so sorry to hear of her passing.
Brian and Kathy Withers
Taylorsville, UT
Rod: I am so sorry to hear of the passing of your sweet companion, Zsa. You and your family are certainly in the thoughts and prayers of our JRC Law School class of 1976. God bless you in this difficult life transition. -- John Cawley
John Cawley
Bountiful, Utah
Rod, Beki and I are sorry to hear of Zas's passing. She lives on thru all of you and the great examples she set.
Kent & Beki Mann
St. George, Utah
Rod and Family, I am so sorry for your loss of Zsa. She was always so nice and friendly when she came into the office. What an Amazing Lady she was! We know she will be truly missed. Love, The Okabe's
Kelli Okabe
Layton, UT
Mike, Sylvia and Rod. We absolutely love you and miss Zsa. As an in-law of her she will be truly missed. Loved her food and bowling skills as she always whipped our behinds. She’s always there with all of us. Love to all. 💖
Judy and Harv Frigaard
Roy, Utah