Patrick M. Kelly
April 28, 1950 - August 14, 2022
Loving husband, brother, and uncle, Patrick M Kelly, passed away early in the morning on 14 Aug 22 at the age of 72.
Pat was born on 28 Apr 1950 in Salt Lake City, UT to legendary League of Women Voters activist, Mary Jean Kelly, and heroic World War II pilot, Robert Earl Kelly. As a child, Pat grew up in Rose Park and Bountiful, UT as a fun-loving trouble-making terrorizing rabble-rouser who was fascinated by fire, explosives, fireworks, and guns and tested the patience of his parents, neighbors, and St Olaf’s Catholic School teachers.
While growing up in Bountiful, Pat grew like a tree and blossomed into a spectacular basketball player at St Olaf’s and Judge Memorial High School. Pat loved basketball and graduated from Judge in 1968 with all-state honors in basketball. Pat subsequently attended Wake Forrest University in Winston Salem, NC, served as team captain his senior year, and graduated in 1973 with a history degree.
After graduating from college, Pat received the opportunity to play professional basketball in France, where he spent the next six years in Grenoble, Dunkirk, Champagne, and Fort Philippe. Pat really found himself in France. He had lots of down time in there, so Pat read a lot, picked up cooking, and ultimately became a spectacular chef.
Upon his return from France in 1980, Pat became interested in physical therapy, attended PT school at the University of Utah, and became an adored physical therapist. Pat was loved and respected everywhere he worked because he had a passion for PT and healing people. Pat was a kind-hearted and dependable physical therapist who was so good with people, even as a rookie PT. It only took a short time for Pat’s patients to fall in love with the Gentle Giant and his healing hands.
While he was attending PT school, Pat met the love of his life, Roberta (Bo) Thorn, through a mutual friend and fellow PT school student in 1980. Bo enjoyed how honest and direct Pat was, so the two started dating shortly after. Bo was powerless against Pat’s charm and terrible jokes and the two soon fell in love and were married on 16 April 1983. Bo loved being together with Pat, whether it was going camping, eating dinner together at home, spending time together reading, or dancing out on the back porch.
Pat loved French cooking and spoke eloquently about the difference in cooking with clarified butter vs regular butter. Pat continually improved his cooking and watched the PBS cooking show on Saturday mornings to try out the recipes from the show. Dinner at Pat and Bo’s house was always a fabulous event. His Country Captain Chicken, Morel mushroom salad, walleye fish fries, and duck dinners at the house were always cherished gatherings.
Pat was an amazing and soft-spoken teddy bear who was patient and kind to everyone. He never raised his voice and always let his actions speak for him. He loved little kids and teaching them about birds and the outdoors and showing them how to shoot trap. Pat was also a father-like figure to several whose fathers had passed.
Pat enjoyed wildlife and the simplicity of nature. He loved camping, fishing, hunting, and spending time with family and friends in Montana at Hebgen Lake and Georgetown Lake; in Wyoming in the Wind River Mountains, Dad’s Lake, Greys River, Lewis Lake, Shoshone Lake, and Flaming Gorge; at Blue Lake, NV; and in Utah at Strawberry Reservoir, on a houseboat at Lake Powell, and in the Uinta Mountains.
Pat’s love of nature and birds led him to the Ambassador Duck Club, a migratory marshland just southeast of Antelope Island in the Great Salt Lake. Pat purchased his membership to the Duck Club right after he graduated from Wake Forrest and was at the Duck Club probably 150 days a year running his dogs. Pat was there almost daily during duck season from October to February and 3-4 times a week in the summer, including every weekend working on whatever needed to be done.
In addition to the Duck Club, Pat was incredibly passionate about the Bear River, the National Wild Turkey Federation, the Friends of the Great Salt Lake, and National Audubon Society.
Pat is survived by his wife, Bo; sister, Joan Lepley; brothers, Steve and Mike Kelly; sisters-in-law, Sharon Kelly, Cathy Kelly, Lynn Wise, and Martha Mason; brothers-in-law, Jack Thorn and Roger Hawk; nieces, Jean Kelly, Kate Lepley, and Elizabeth Kinghorn; nephews, (Little) Patrick, Paul, Mike, and (Little) Tim Kelly; and nephew-in-law, Clayton Kienholtz.
Pat was preceded to Heaven by parents, Jean and Bob; brother, (Big) Tim Kelly; sisters-in-law, Virginia Tarpley and Antonella Kelly; brothers-in-law, Rick Lepley and Mike Hawk; his first dog and German short hair, Twiggy; and beloved labs, Abe, Bess, Kitty, Corvis, and Bette.
To read Pat’s full obituary or if you have photos of or a story about Pat you’d like to share, please call or email nephew, (Little) Patrick Kelly, at 801-915-8043 or patkelly1993@yahoo.com.
In Loving Memory
Sorry to hear about Pat, our prayers will include him and his family. My wife and I both were Therapy Patients of his and also "old" friends as parishioners at Our Lady of Guadalupe. I was an Altar Boy with all the Kelly brothers too Roger and Shirley Mares
Roger Mares
Sandy, Ut
Our deepest condolences to your family. Mike has some wonderful memories of Pat, and he will be deeply missed. Our prayers are with all of you. Mike and Liz Smith
Mike and Liz Smith
VERNAL, UT
We are so sorry to hear of Pat's passing. We always enjoyed his company and hearing his stories. We remember his visit to Georgetown Lake when he cooked a delicious dinner in a dutch oven over an open fire. He was a kind hearted man who will be missed. Steve & Lori Dosen
Steve & Lori Dosen
Georgetown Lake, Mt
Our condolences to the Kelly family. Pat was a wonderful person. May he rest in peace. Go Deacs! Laura and Terry Giblin
Terry Giblin
South Jordan, Ut
Condolences to the Kelly family upon the passing of Pat. He was such a good person. Tom and Mary McCarthey
Thomas McCarthey
Salt Lake City, UT
My sincere condolences to the Kelly Family and friends. Pat was a true gentleman with a big smile and bigger heart. He is missed but lives on on our memories of him.
Dave Cook
Sandy, UT
Some of our most cherished family memories and stories involved the lovely Pat Kelly. He was a gentle, funny and fun giant! Our sincerest condolences to the Kelly family.
Matt and Mary Kay Brennan
Oakland, CA
So very sad to heat of this gentle man's passing. Fondly remember his Judge days and meeting again at Cosgriff. My deep sympathy to the Kelly family.
Patricia Gareau Tuft Bradley
Clinton, WA
Pat was one of the first person's I worked with at Professional Therapy. My first day I knew we would be lifetime friends, and since then whether it was a week or a year since we saw each other he always treated me the same. He was a sweet, sincere, honest, man. I will miss you Pat. To the family, I am sorry for your loss. Cheryl
Cheryl and Marc Jones
Midvale, UT
Pat was one of my two best friends at Judge. We lost track of one another after high school, but when I moved back to SLC in 2016, I was very much hoping to catch up with him. Unfortunately, I was always too busy. Big mistake. I remember very fondly weekends together, late night drives dropping him off in Bountiful, and lots of basketball. He always had a calm demeanor and a great sense of humor. Please accept my sincere condolences and best wishes for his family.
Paul F. Bray
Salt Lake City, UT
We are very sorry to hear of Pat's death. Our condolences to Roberta and family. Frank and Diane L'Etoile
Frank L’Etoile
Salt Lake City, Ut
I was very saddened to hear of Pat's passing. He was always kind and respectful of me during my years as a member of the Ambassador Duck Club. The club was much better for his work and leadership there. I know he loved his time out there. Steve Earley Centerville, UT
Steven K. Earley
Centerville, UT
I met Pat in the the Physical Therapy program at the University of Utah. We became good friends and then after he married my good friend Roberta, family. Patrick would take me duck hunting with him, where after the hunt, we would wait for the ducks to come home. I learned a lot from Pat. I am saddened by his passing for all who knew him and his wife Roberta most of all. I will miss his friendship, humor and hugs.
Gail Olson-Smith
Kailua, HI
I was so sad to hear of Pat's passing. He was a wonderful, kind person. We were in the same PT class of'82. I saw Pat and Bo afew years ago. Pat gave me a tour of his "Duck Club" by the Great Salt Lake. We had so much fun! To Roberta, I am sending you love and prayers! My condolances to Pat's family! He will be sorrly missed! RIP My Friend! Mary Day
Mary Day
Highlands Rsnch, CO
I am so sorry Roberta to you and and your family. My thoughts and prayers are with you and your family at this difficult time. Shirley Neilson
Shirley Neilson
Salt Lake City, UT
I am so sorry to find out about Pat's passing. My heart breaks for Bo and the entire Kelly family! I am a first cousin from Montana and remember all of the family well! We lost touch over the years, but I have nothing but fond memories of the "Kelly's". My favorite Aunt Jean and Uncle Bud and the cousins. I grew up with Joanie, we are one year apart in age. I remember Pat and Bo meeting my husband at Bud and Jeans in 1984, my husband didn't want to stand up to greet them as he says "I only stood to his waist"!!! I remember as a little girl taking a ride with Pat and due to his height he didn't have anyplace to sit in the back seat to put your legs down. LOL The front seat of his car went straight to the back seat! We had so much fun! I so luv the Kelly family and would luv to re-connect! I live in the family home at 516 W 3rd St. in Anaconda, my number is 406-560-5521. Sending luv and hugs to you all! Remember luv is stronger than death. Luvaluv Laureen Clark Hensley
Laureen Hensley
Anaconda, MT