Paul L. Whitehead, MD

May 23, 1936 - March 23, 2024

Born in Salt Lake City on May 23, 1936, to Marva, a schoolteacher, and Rolland, a barber and business owner, Paul was a fifth-generation Utahn who, from the beginning, possessed a sharp intellect, unique talents, and earnest humility. The youngest of three boys, Paul’s uncompromising character, spontaneous wit, steadfast discipline, and unwavering kindness resulted in many accolades as a youth, including the Deseret Recognition Badge, the Good Citizen Award, and the rank of Eagle Scout.
As a sophomore at East High, Paul’s academic success earned him early admission to the University of Utah as a Ford Scholar. He graduated from the University of Utah with a degree in biology, summa cum laude, all while commuting, via his red Cushman scooter, to his job at the Saltair Resort. 

Paul entered the University of Utah School of Medicine at age 20. His peers aptly summarized his tour de force in their 1960 Yearbook: “Paul is a native Utahn whose major talent is the pursuit and acquisition of the coveted ‘A,’ a task at which he is singularly proficient. A Ford Scholar, Paul graduated with high honors from the University of Utah. He is a member of Phi Beta Kappa, Phi Beta Phi, President of Alpha Omega Alpha (the medical school honor society), vice president of Phi Beta Pi, spends his spare time playing the organ, is a member of the American Guild of Organists and was selected Outstanding Junior Student.”
 
After graduating, Paul took a medical internship at Cincinnati General Hospital, followed by service in the United States Air Force as a General Medical Officer at Wakkanai Air Station in Hokkaido, Japan. Paul would warmly recall those frigid days in Northern Japan tending to the medical needs of his fellow Airmen. He was honorably discharged and then returned to Cincinnati General Hospital to complete his residency in psychiatry and fellowship in child and adolescent psychiatry. On a bus tour he met his future wife, Marilyn Davis, a Connecticut-born social work graduate student from Smith College. They married in Old Saybrook, Connecticut, in 1964.
 
After welcoming two of their four children, Paul and Marilyn moved to Utah, where Paul joined the University of Utah School of Medicine faculty, established the Department of Child Psychiatry at Primary Children’s Hospital, and was appointed Departmental Chair of Child Psychiatry. His tenure as Chair was noteworthy for his strong clinical and administrative skills, dedication to patient care, and commitment to principles of social justice, which resulted in the implementation of Primary Children’s Hospital’s first Equal Employment Opportunity policy statement.
 
In 1980, Paul opened a private practice where he supported hundreds of children, adolescents, and adults struggling with mental health-related concerns. Through his advocacy, he contributed immensely to the growth of psychiatric services in Utah. Paul served as President of the Utah Psychiatric Association, President of the Intermountain Academy of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry, Chairman of the Advisory Council for Children and Youth for the Utah State Division of Mental Health, and as Board Examiner for Child and General Psychiatry. He served as the Public Affairs Representative for the Utah Psychiatric Association for over a decade and remained involved in training psychiatric residents as an Adjunct Professor of Psychiatry. Paul’s efforts to raise awareness about mental illness, including his successful establishment of the first “Mental Health Awareness Week” under Governor Bangerter, were among his most prized career accomplishments. For his service to the community, Paul received the Norman S. Anderson, MD, Award for Distinguished Service, Distinguished Life Fellow of the American Psychiatric Association, Pathfinder Award for Leadership in Training in Child Mental Health, and the 50-year medallion from the University of Utah School of Medicine. 
 
Paul was disciplined and high-achieving but also generous and kind-hearted. His most significant accomplishments were his four children, six grandchildren, and 60-year marriage. Together, Paul and Marilyn nurtured a cohesive family and were active in the community. They were well known for hosting fundraising events in their backyard to promote the arts, the Utah AIDS Foundation, and the local child psychiatry community.

Paul had a keen interest in music and was a pianist and master organist. He engineered an optimal acoustic space for its expression in their home in Holladay, made three commercial recordings, and composed and performed a unique score for each of his children’s weddings. 
 
Paul died on March 23, 2024. He was preceded in death by his parents and brothers, Carl and Duane. He is survived by his wife Marilyn, four children: Anne (Jim) Morgan, Dr. Paul (Claire) Whitehead, Kathryn (Tony) Goddard, Emily (Dr. Steve) Bleyl; and grandchildren Connor and Erin Morgan, Grace Goddard, Greer Bleyl, and Chloe and Charlotte Whitehead.
 
A Celebration of Life will be held Saturday, May 11 from 4:00 PM until 6:00 PM at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, Salt Lake City.  Guests are encouraged to use the parking and entrance on the north side of the building.

The family welcomes flowers, cards, or memorial donations to the National Alliance for the Mentally Ill or Neighborhood House in Salt Lake City.

In Loving Memory

Paul will leave a hole in our hearts. He was such and integral part of Child and Adolescent Psychiatry in Utah. We will miss him professionally, and personally. 

Anne and Doug Gray

Salt Lake City, UT

Words that come to mind when thinking of Paul are like a weather report—bright, clear, and calm.   Bright as he rose rapidly and at a young age through the ranks of academe to become a physician and psychiatrist, then rose to the top of his profession as a professor and department chair.  Clear as he became an administrator and an instigator of programs and ideas, who communicated thoughts wisely and well to make departments run and good ideas to evolve into good programs in service of mental health in Utah.  Calm as he became the stabilizer of roiling minds of kids and parents beset with mental distress, and in great demand as a much sought-after practitioner.  He was totally even-tempered and reassuring through organizations’ conundrums and patients’ crises.  His subtle wit made us want to gather ‘round.  He was a patron of and a performer of the arts, particularly the art of pipe organ playing, and delighted in bringing culture to his friends, enough so to build his own concert hall and fill it with his own renditions of Bach.   Son Paul’s emulation of his father in choosing the same profession confirms for us the kind of doc he was and dad he was, and a thoroughly devoted companion to Marilyn as she was to him.   Paul, you left our world better.  

Louis and Debbie Moench

Salt Lake City, UT

My condolences go out to your family and friends upon the passing of your loved one. Let me tell you a bit about the connection I had with Dr. W.  In the mid 1980's my then teenage son was referred to him by his pediatrician Kenneth Fishler and nurse Mildred . When the troubled teen refused to go I became the patient.  I needed guidance on dealing with the boy as well as his stepfather.  To say that I was also depressed is an understatement. Off and on over several years the kindly doctor agreed to see me on Wednesday evenings so that I didn't have to ask for time off at work.  Occasionally those Wednesday evenings fell on the night before Thanksgiving.  How kind of him to keep our scheduled appointments when he should have been home with his family. Eventually I felt stronger and on my last appointment I jokingly said that we had to stop "seeing each other" on Wednesday nights.  He gave a little chuckle and like the gentle person that he was nodded in agreement and smiled. After all of these years I still think of him on Thanksgiving eve. Thank you so much for sharing Dr. W. with me and all of his other patients.     

Karen Anthony

Salt Lake City, UT

It has been a while since I last searched for an obituary for Dr. Whitehead, but admittedly I have done so. My mom sent me the link. I was one of those troubled teens who received his attention for an hour (45 mins, haha) once a week for what seemed like an eternity. Little had I experienced, little did I know, eternity is a really long time. I could share about our sessions working on model airplanes, playing mario bros, listening to music (he had a VERY serious audio system in his office), arm wrestling...and even my grilling him about court cases he was involved with as either a direct witness or as an expert witness. I have so much more but I don't dare make this about me. He helped me. He really helped me a lot. My amazing wife and three beautiful, successful daughters are difinitive proof. I have carried this for a very long time, and it gave me comfort then and it gives me comfort now. He said "if there is no afterlife, we won't be aware if it." I sure hope there's an afterlife. -M

Michael Schindler

Bingham Canyon, UT

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