Ralph P. Schamel

December 27, 1932 - December 15, 2017

Ralph passed away December 15, 2017, after a sudden acute illness. He was surrounded by family and friends, with his beloved Gwen holding his hand. 

Born on December 27, 1932, in Flushing New York, Ralph was the youngest of four children of George A. and Selma (Fürst) Schamel. He graduated from Bordentown Military Institute, then attended Cornell University on an ROTC scholarship, earning a Bachelor of Science degree in 1956. At Cornell, he met Gwendolyn DeFiore (Cornell '57). Ralph served in the Army, and subsequently the Army Reserve, retiring as a lieutenant.

In 1958, Ralph and Gwen were married in White Plains, New York. They moved to Salt Lake City in 1959, where they raised 4 children. Ralph worked for the Utah State Department of Transportation, starting on a survey crew, and working up to a position as Environmental Engineer.

Ralph was an avid outdoorsman, enjoying hunting, fishing, boating, camping and bicycling. He designed and hand-built two family campers, in which the family traveled around the western United States and made cross-country trips to visit family on the East Coast. Later, he traveled the world on group bicycle expeditions, often with one of his sisters and/or immediate family members. He was also a Certified Hunter Safety instructor, as well as an officer in the Salt Lake Rifle and Pistol Association, for many years.

Starting at age 17, Ralph was a committed volunteer for the Red Cross – ultimately donating more than 80 gallons of whole blood. He was a Deacon and Elder at Cottonwood Presbyterian Church, as well as a volunteer at both Cottonwood Pressyterian and St. Vincent's Catholic church and school. He was always available to help friends, neighbors…even strangers, when he observed a need.

Ralph is survived by his wife Gwendolyn; children Peter, Lisa (Schamel) Cundall, Chuck and John; five grandchildren: Ellen, Katherine and James Schamel, Abigail and Devin Cundall; sister Dorothy (Schamel) Laser, and her family. He was predeceased (by one month) by his sister Barbara (Bobbi), and, before his own birth, by his brother, known as "Sunny."

A celebration of his life will be held on Thursday, December 21, 2017 from 6:00 – 8:00 PM at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, Salt Lake City. Guests are encouraged to use the complimentary valet parking on the north side of the building. A memorial service will be held on January 13, 2018 at 2:00 PM at Cottonwood Presbyterian Church, 1580 East Vine Street, Salt Lake City. 

In lieu of flowers, the family asks that you consider one or more of the following:

Donating blood/plasma/platelets

Contributing to the National Wildlife Federation, or the Nature Conservancy

Respecting, protecting, supporting and visiting local and national parks, monuments, wildlife & nature preserves and open spaces (taking only pictures and memories, and leaving only footprints)

 

In Loving Memory

Gwen, I am so sorry to learn of Ralph's passing. I have fond memories of seeing him at parties after our choral performances, and I know he was such an important part of you life. My thoughts are with you and your family. Pat Richards

Patricia Richards

Salt Lake City, UT

Gwen and Family. Please accept our deepest sympathies for the loss of your husband and father. Your loss is shared by those of us who knew him. We saw Ralph as a fun, caring and responsible man who had a deep love for Gwen and the family. We only hope that our thoughts and prayers will lessen your sorrow. You can count on us to be here for you whenever you need us. Doreen and Jack

Doreen Espinoza

Salt Lake City, UT

Dear Gwen, So sorry to read of Ralph's passing. He is such a neat person and I always think of you and him so fondly. Barbara, your singing buddy from Pro Musica

Barbara Millrr

Ivins, Ut

Gwen, Please accept my condolences on the passing of Ralph. My thoughts and prayers are with you. Marie Kane

Marie Kane

Taylorsville, UT

Dear Gwen, Peter, John, Chuck, and Lisa, I'm so sorry to hear of Ralph's passing. If there was ever a man that lived by the song, "I did it my way" it was Ralph. What a great, adventurous, life he lead. He was a great source of good in the world who lived life to his fullest. I have so many fond memories of being with your family, especially at Christmas time. Love to you all, especially to you, Gwen, my friend. Jayna (and Vincient)

Jayna Friberg Cleamons

Medford, Or

Chuck and Family, Sorry to hear of your dad's passing. Ralph and your family are in my prayers. Ed Henkels

Ed Henkels

Salt Lake City, UT

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