Raymond George Baker
May 27, 1926 - May 28, 2015
Born May 27, 1926 and reared in Royal Oak, Michigan. Died May 28, 2015 in Salt Lake City, Utah. Served in the US Army Infantry near the end of WWII. Ray graduated from the University of Michigan with a degree in Economics. He married Helen Jane Wiggin June 26, 1954. Helen and Ray's 61+ year romance began as a result of a blind date arranged by friends. This set the tone for their fun relationship which included a lot of laughter over the years. They lived in the Detroit area for 87 years, moving to Salt Lake City, Utah in the fall of 2013 to be near more family.
For most of Ray's professional career, he owned his own small business – working as a manufacturers' rep for precision gauging equipment related to the automobile industry in the Detroit area. Ray was a great provider and was successful because of hard work and superior people skills. He was genuinely interested in getting to know everyone he met.
Ray was a sports fanatic. Sports were a huge part of his life – both participating and as a spectator. He loved all sports – but particularly he enjoyed skiing, sailing, golf, ice skating and tennis. He loved to ski and could handle almost any terrain. He owned several sailboats (one named the "Family Circus") and crewed for friends in races. He has been known to say, '"If there is a competition, I'll be there." He didn't care who was playing – except when it came to University of Michigan football and the Detroit Tigers.
He had season tickets to the Wolverine games for 10 years and even when he couldn't go to a game, he was famous for running up the Michigan flag on his own flag pole and waking everyone up on game day marching through the house in his underwear singing the Michigan fight song with his radio on his shoulder. He loved attending the Tiger games with his kids and brought many neighborhood kids along also. He would keep all the stats as the game progressed. Once he was so absorbed keeping stats that he was hit in the chest by a home run ball on the fly. The ball bounced off of him and hit a lady in the head knocking her unconscious. He had a bruise on his chest for weeks.
He was well known for his "professional quality" ice rink which he would build in his backyard every winter. He would carefully tend to the ice every night before his children and the neighborhood kids would show up the next day to use it. He loved skating and hockey. He played hockey for years and in his 40s he would play with 20 year-olds. Since ice time was scarce, he would actually set his alarm to get up to play in the middle of the night. He followed his hockey-playing son, Bruce, around the Mid-West and Canada to support the team. He helped coach girls softball for both of his daughters teams and coached his son's baseball teams as well.
He was in several golf groups over the years and has golfed all over the country. Helen and Ray made many good friends at Twin Beach. He taught his children and grand-children how to ski, swim, ride bikes, ice skate, bowl, etc and he loved to play any board or card game with his family. He was at master at "Clue" and there were many wild games.
The Baker family travelled around the US with some highlights being Camp Michigania and US history trips to Civil War sites and US historical monuments. Helen and Ray often surprised their children and grandchildren with "mystery trips" which have become some of the most cherished memories in the family. After retirement, Helen and Ray enjoyed many trips together travelling around the world alone as well as with the "Nomads" travel club.
Ray actively gave back to his community. Annually, he organized a golf tournament to benefit "Infant Mortality" programs. He volunteered at the St. Vincent de Paul Society which provides financial assistance to low income individuals. He delivered "Meals on Wheels" from the time he retired at age 62 until he was 85.
Although their marriage was a true partnership, Ray always put Helen's needs before his own. During their last several years in Michigan, Ray became her full-time caregiver. He was a loving husband and wonderful father.
He is survived by his wife, Helen (Wiggin) and three children: Janet (Doxey), Bruce Baker and Karen Baker. He is also survived by 6 grandchildren (all grand-daughters) and 9 great-grandchildren. A funeral Mass will be celebrated Wednesday, June 3, 2015 at 1 o'clock PM at St. Vincent de Paul Catholic Church followed by interment at Mount Calvary Cemetery.
In Loving Memory
Karen I'm very sorry to hear about the passing of your father Love Lila Thompson
Lila J Thompson
murray, ut
Dearest Helen and Karen, So sorry to hear about Ray. Please know you're in our thoughts and prayers during this most difficult time. Many prayers for you and the family from us and St. Fabian faith community where he served God so faithfully.
Mary Doot
Commerce, Mi
Dear Helen, We were so saddened to hear about Ray. We have so many fond memories of being with you two at Twin Beach. We will keep you and your family in our prayers. Fondly, Bob & Nancy Austin
Bob & Nancy Austin
West Bloomfield, MI
Sorry to hear of your loss,my sympathy goes out to all of you. I have lots of good memories from Queen of Hope, Our trip to Germany for the Passion Play in 1990 and our trips to Cadillac with the Gad-a-Bout golf group. You are all in my thoughts and prayers. Fonly, Jean
Jean Lopus
Farmington, MI
Dear Helen, We are so sorry to hear of Ray's passing. Our deepest sympathy goes out to you and your children. Please know that we will keep you in our prayers. Oh, what fond memories I have of the two of you and our Gad-A-Bout days and all the positive messages Ray would give me about my golf game. May God bless and keep you. Love, Bobbi and Pat
Bobbi and Patrick Byrnes
Farmington Hills, MI
Dear Helen, Marianne & I were sad to here about Ray. I always enjoyed spending time with Ray playing golf and talking sports. He even attended some of Greg's high school football games. He was a VERY GOOD MAN and friend. Marianne & I will keep you and your family in our prayers. God Bless You. Curt Hay
Curt & Marianne Hay
Walled Lake, Mi
Helen, My deepest condolences on Ray's passing. There are so very many happy memories of times with both of you at Twin Beach. You and your family are in my prayers. Ray was a wonderful and gentle man.
Louise Taylor-Mannings
Farmington Hills, Mi
Hi Helen-very sorry to hear about Ray! A GOOD man; a GOOD husband ;a GOOD father and not too bad of a golfer! Roy
Roy and Mary Ann Dirkes
Lathrup Village, Mi
I remember Ray well from his days as a Sales Rep for Marposs Corporation, where I worked for many years. Ray was such a gentleman, hard working, and it was always a pleasure to see him in our offices. I am sorry to hear that his family will now have to live without him. I know he will be missed by many.
Pat Patience
Ferndale, MI
To Karen and Baker Family - I am so sorry to hear about Ray's passing. I feel like he was a real part of my life - as a terrific dad in the neighborhood, as a friend to my parents, golf buddy to my dad, coach of my brother's baseball team, and so good to my husband Tom and another "grandpa" to my daughter Elizabeth. He was one of the "good guys" of OLQoH and will be missed by many!
Maureen (Brady) Leonard
Farmington Hills, MI
I knew Ray and Helen who were dear friends of my late sister PAuline Primeau Feuell. Pauline and Helen taught school together and even travelled in the early years. I remember Ray and Helen as a kind beautiful couple who helped my sister in so many ways. Blessings and deep sympathy to the Baker Family. Jackie Primeau Spala
Jackie PRimeau Spala
Plymouth, Mi
Our lives were enriched by knowing Ray and Helen. Ray was as gentle as any gentleman could be. We met you both on a Nomads trip, and want you to know how much Donna and Vickie and I loved you both. You'll always be in our memories and want you to know how sad we all are. Love, Jer
Jerry Monley
Westland, Mi
I had the pleasure of making home visits with Ray as members of the St Vincent de Paul Society at St Fabian Church. I have never known anyone who showed more empathy, kindness and concern for others. I looked at Ray and thought he truly believed "Whatever you do the least...." and lived his life that way. I am sure the Good Lord is now giving him the rewards he so truly deserves.
Frank Thibodeau
Farmington Hills, Mi
To the Baker family. On behalf of the Haas family, we would like to express our deepest sympathy and send our condolences during your time of loss. Our family has such fond memories of the times gone by. Your dad will always have a place in our hearts. Our thoughts and prayers will be with you. Best regards. The Haas family
The Haas family
Brighton, Mi