Robert James Clayton

May 8, 1985 - May 15, 2008

Robert James Clayton

“Beau”

May 8, 1985 – May 15, 2008

 

Twenty-three years and seven days young, vibrant, loving, kind, and energetic.  Those of us who knew and loved Beau will never forget his zest for life.  He loved the Utah Mountains and his spirit will live on there.  When you’re camping, fishing, hiking, boating or snowboarding, remember Beau.  Let the love he shared with us live on in your own lives.

 

Survived by his mother Kathy; sister Nicholle; stepfather Jay; grandmother Rose; nieces Allissa, Madyson; nephew AJ; and many aunts, uncles, cousins and friends too numerous to name.

 

Friends are invited to a wake in Beaus honor on Sunday, May 18th from 6 to 8 PM at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, where complimentary valet service will be provided.

 

Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Monday, May 19th at 10 AM at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 3015 E. Creek Road, Salt Lake City. 

 Inurnment will be held on Tuesday, May 20th at 1:00 PM at Larkin Sunset Gardens 1950 East 10600 South, Sandy. 

 

In Loving Memory

Dear Kathy and Nicholle, Tim and I and the boys are devastated to learn of Beau's passing. He was such a wonderful, kind and sensitive young man. We are all so sad and wish this didn't happen. We are so sorry for you and we deeply grieve with you. The boys really looked up to Beau and they are so sad. Kathy not sure if you have read Beaus myspace but under the part where it asks about Heros, he said his Mom is his hero. And that is so precious. We love you both and we are all here if you need us for anything! To Jay, you meant so much to Beau. He talked fondly of you when he was back in Nebraska last January. Thank you for loving him and all you did for him. I know you are devastated too and we are very sorry. To Beaus friends, we so sorry. We know you all loved him dearly and were very close to him. God bless you all for being there for him. Always look up to the Lord for your strength. He is there for you even though it especially might not feel like it at this time. Love, Aunt Lori, Uncle Tim, Sean and Shane

Lori Lentz

Omaha, Ne

Dear Kathy, Many of our memories include Beau and his go for it or go home attitude. He always went out of his way to say hi(even if he was driving away and saw you he would turn around). Beau was a special soul who touched many people and taught us all to live to the fullest, just like him. Remeber that when you don't think you can carry any more let God carry you, you are not alone.

Scott and Hollie Napier

midvale, ut

Dear Jay & Family, I am so sorry to hear of the loss of your beloved son. My prayers are with you and your loved ones.

Scott Freer

So.Ogden, Ut

Kathy and Family; When I heard the news it broke my heart. My Name is Quinn Hardcastle, I am Jeff Johnson's Uncle. I would like to tell you a story that I will think of often. One day Jeff was at his Grandpa's house with a young boy named B.J. Jeff always called my Uncle Deet. Out of the blue B.J asked me if he could also call me Uncle Deet. I'm sure you know what my response was. I had not seen Beau since I ran into him at a Fishing Tournament in Evanston Wy, in February. If I would of only known. I am sure he's fishing right now. He will always be be in my heart and thoughts. I will think of him often. May God be with you in the days to come. I will truly miss him. Thanks Uncle Deet

Quinn Hardcastle

Sandy, ut

Beau will always be remembered and loved by all. Justin Suttlemyre, Joe Griffiths, Tyler Hall

Justin Suttlemyre

Sandy, uT

Jay - My thoughts, sympathy and prayers are with you...

Kaye Vos

Magna, Ut

Do you remember seeing the excitement on Beau's face on Christmas morning when he got that one perfect present he wasn't expecting? That is the same look on his face as he is reunited with God and God is even more pleased to have him back. As earthly parents, we make mistakes. But our Father in heaven is perfect, holy and loving. His love is greater then our love. In other words, God is more excited to see Beau return to him then we ever were. Even when he was gone a little too long and we paced the room or when BJ was born, when you were waiting for the last contraction to see him for the first time. We don't understand why God needed him back now but God's ways are not our ways. We may never understand why. But everything God does he does to help us and to prosper us. Beau was given his love for life and his spark to bring good things to us. Somewhere in his passing, God has a plan for the rest of us. Somehow, it is a good thing, but in the meantime God has been pacing the floors of heaven waiting to call Beau home and he is more excited to see him then that perfect Christmas gift we were never expecting. He has taken Beau in his arms and has a place prepared for him. John 14:1-3 "Do not let your hearts be troubled. Trust in God; trust also in me. In my Father's house are many rooms; if it were not so, I would have told you. I am going there to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come back and take you to be with me that you also may be where I am." (NIV) Kathy, take time to grieve, take time to heal. Know you are loved and know that God's love is perfect. You are very loved and Beau will never be forgotten.

karen russell

salt lake city, UT

Jay, Family and Friends Keep God's strengths close to all your hearts as he will hold you close and guide you through this most unfortunate time.....Although your Son, Brother, Uncle and Friend is no longer physical, he will always be prominant in spirit..... Allow him to be with you always in times of laughter and in sadness throughout your life....Robert James Clayton (Beau)lives within you all forever..........R.I.P Wayne, Debbie Harrier and Family

Wayne Harrier

Salt Lake City, ut

Kathy-Family-and Alyssa, Beau was a strong and beautiful blessing to your lives. Remember him for all of the kindness and joy he brought to your lives, and not the saddness his loss brought. Give yourselves time to grieve and heal as much as you can...try to be the loved ones that he saw in you. He is really sky diving now...from cloud to cloud...and watching over you with a smile...eating OREOS! All my love, Susie

Susie Turner

Murray, UT

Dear Jay and family, We are very sorry for your loss. Beau was a good person that loved life. He did some work for Kim and I @ our house and he was great to talk with and did fine work. We remember talking with him about turning 21 just before his 21st birthday. He talked about going out and having some cold one's. He is in a better place and will be missed. Our thoughts and prayers go out to Jay, Kathy and family. Beau left to soon, but he is watching over you in heaven. Love and Deepest Sympathy Your Hidden Valley Drive Neighbor's Scott, Kimberley, Mattie and Kendra Westbrook

THE WESTBROOK'S

TRENTON, IL

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