Stormy Lupus
February 8, 1943 - May 5, 2013
Alfred David Lupus
"Stormy"
We lost our handsome and fun-loving Stormy on May 5, 2013, after a battle with Parkinson's Disease. "Bumpa" or "Grandpa" as the grankids called him was born on February 8, 1943 in Salt Lake City to Alfred and Isabelle George Lupus.
His family moved to Orem, Utah in 1946. Growing up in Utah County provided many opportunities for time with friends, playing baseball, swimming in the canal, riding bikes, shooting hoops and playing HORSE. Stormy did have to help out on the family farm, picking tomatoes, peaches and cherries. He liked to tell about "road trips" with his dad, Al, selling peaches on the side of the road on their way to Blythe, CA where they would buy a truckload of cantaloupe and sell them on the roadside as they worked their way back to Utah. These experiences primed Stormy for his later career in sales. The grandkids have been the joy of his life the past 13 years. Derek, Brandon, Venice and Kai. He would use his "Donald Duck" voice with them and they would try to mimic it but they still need some work. They also referred to him as "Cookie Monster" as he would say "me want cookie…give me cookie yum yum!"
Stormy graduated from Orem High School in 1961. He graduated from the University of Utah in 1968 with a major in Geography. That led to a teaching career in middle school for several years. His brother-in-law, Mike, kept telling Stormy that he should be in sales and arranged for him to have an interview with NCH Corporation in Dallas. Careers changed quickly as Stormy began selling welding materials for Xergon in 1974. He enjoyed sales and was very successful, rated as the #1 sales person in the company for 10 years. He retired in 2009. Stormy and his wife, Carol, were very fortunate to have traveled widely, spent many years boating at Lake Powell with their sons and friends, also loving camping, fishing and hunting. Snow skiing was his passion and he was an awesome powder skier. Alta was his "other home" for many years. Golf was the warm weather sport. After retirement he was fortunate enough to become a "marshall" at River Oaks Golf Course. Thanks to those at Sandy City Parks and Rec who guided him along the way.
Stormy is survived by his wife Carol who he married in 1964; sons Jeff (Gloria) and Jason (Noelle); grandkids Derek, Brandon, Venice and Kai; sisters Lawana (Pat) Clinton, Sharon (Mike) Foley, Kathy (Brent) Reynolds, and Greg (Renae). He is preceded in death by his parents and sister Colleen. Stormy cherished the extraordinary support and love from his family.
A special thanks to Inspiration Hospice and to his private caregivers Elizabeth, Lidia, and Roger. Also thanks to his friends who have been so great to visit, take him out for lunch or for a drive. Thanks to all of our very dear and incredible friends for your love and support…you know who you are.
A wake will be held on Friday, May 10th from 6 to 8 PM at Starks Funeral Parlor, 3651 South 900 East, Salt Lake City. A Funeral Mass will be celebrated on Saturday, May 11th at 10:00 AM at St. Thomas More Catholic Church, 3015 E. Creek Road, Cottonwood Heights. Urn burial to follow at Larkin Sunset Gardens, 1950 East 10600 South, Sandy.
In lieu of flowers, please consider a donation for Parkinson's Research to the Michael J. Fox Foundation, at www.michaeljfox.org or you may call 1-800-708-7644.
In Loving Memory
I am so sorry for your loss. He was a great man, and very admired coworker. For the years he has been retired, I have missed being able to help him on his computer. My prayers are with you all during this time. He will be missed
Jill Gleghorn
Irving, TX
What an amazing couple; Stormy & Carol. You lived a beautiful life together. That is something to cherish. With love....Lynda Croft
Lynda Croft
Midvale, Ut
Carol, I am so very sorry. You know how much we loved Stormy! You are a beautiful and strong lady and have lots of friends and support to get through this difficult time. Stormy was a sweetheart and our thoughts and prayers are with you. Love, Gina and Don
Gina Petersen
Sandy, Ut
Stormy was one of the first sales reps I worked with when I first started at Partsmaster 15 years ago. He was such a sweet, kind man. Stormy will always have a special place in my heart. I consider myself truly blessed to have known him and worked with him. Although he is gone, his legacy will live on because of all the lives he touched while on this earth. Love yall, Teri
Teri LaVohn Tapp
Irving, TX
Dear Carol: We are so sorry for your loss. We remember the wonderful times we had with you both and the Foleys at the weddings here in Kingwood. Stormy loved to dance and it was fun watching the two of you have such a good time. We pray that God will give you comfort at this time, and a peaceful heart. Love and Blessings, Al , Dawn Leake and family
Al and Dawn Leake and Family
Kingwood, Tx
Sharon and I had the greatest respect for Stormy. He was a very classy guy. Probably my fondest remembrance of Stormy is the day I got a phone call from someone as I was walking through Costco on a Sunday morning, asking if my Corvette was still available for sale. I said yes. He then said he wanted to see it. Then I said "Is this Stormy Lupus"? He was quiet for a few seconds, and I said "Stormy, this is John Ragsdale". He and Carol came up that afternoon and bought the car. I know how much he loved and cared for that Red Corvette and we are happy to know it brought him so much enjoyment. Rest well, Stormy!! Our sincere condolences to Carol and all of Stormy's family.
John & Sharon Ragsdale
Sandy, Ut
Lupus family, we are very sorry for your loss.Dominic, Sam and Simon Fritsch
Dominic Fritsch
Albuquerque, NM
Jason, Jeff and families, Please accept my deepest sympathy and condolences for the loss of your father. I never had the opportunity to meet Stormy but his legend is alive and well. He is so often and highly spoken of that I regret very much not having the good fortune to meet him. Again, my deepest sympathies to you, your mother and your entire family.
Curt Selby
Irving, TX
Josette and I send our condolences to Carol and the family. While there are many great memories from our days together in Orem, memories of Stormy and his pleasing personality will always rank towards the top. We send our love and best wishes. Brent and Josette Nay
Brent Nay
Pleasant View, Ut
To a great inspiration and mentor during my 30 years with NCH. He and Carol were always the first to ask when and where the big party was at all the sales meetings. Stormy,you did a great job duplicating yourself with Jason & Jeff,and you should be proud. Well like the Greeks say "MAY YOUR MEMORY BE ETERNAL" Manny & Valerie Kanas
Manny Kanas
Wilmington, De
I am sorry for your loss. Stormy was a gentleman. One of my fondest memories was of him standing up for me at an X-Ergon meeting. The information being presented was incorrect and I spoke up. He had my back when the presenter tried to say I was wrong. Just the sort of man Stormy was - a champion!
LeAnn Morgan
Conneaut, OH
So sorry to hear of your loss. Stormy was a great man and will remember by many. I know Charley really respected him and loved spending time talking to him. You and your family are in our thoughts during this sad time.
Valerie and Charley Belcher
Raleigh, NC
Carol,Jason,Jeff and family, I was so glad many of us were able to see Stormy last August when he still looked and sounded great. That is how I will always remember him,loving life and full of joy. I think you guys know how much our relationship meant to me over the years.He was a mentor and helped save my career. My thoughts and prayers are with you guys and I look forward to sharing many "Stormy Stories" when we get together in Dallas. Warmest regards, Bob and Claudia Bringe
Bob Bringe
Marietta, ga
Carol, Jeff and Jason, So sorry to hear of Stormy's passing. He was truly a great guy. I reminisce of our times at Lake Powell all the time. Those were the best times of my life. Drinking margaritas on the beach and listening to Jimmy Buffet !! The memories never go away. Mike
Michael Fry
Ladera Ranch, Ca
May 07, 2013 Dad, You now have your dignity/pride back. Now you can rest easy once again. The past few day's have been very tough for us but also very joyful knowing that you are in a better place now and free. You taught me so much in my life and I cherish everything you showed me. I am going to miss Lake Powell with you,horse shoes,camping,skiing,fishing,Hawaii and most of all just being able to talk to you and to call you dad. I love you with everything I have. God bless...
Jason Lupus
Draper, Ut
Sorry to hear about Stormy. Many of my best memories involving our beloved Alta include skiing with Stormy and admiring his talents as a skier. His zest for life was always refreshing. Bless you Carol for your devotion and care.
David Wiegand
Sandy, Ut
Sorry for our loss,because to us Stormy and Carol were family. Always willing to help and a very giving man. I know he will be missed but never forgotten Love to all
Blaine and Betty Leger
Iota, La
Carol, please accept my deepest sympathy to you and your family on the loss of your sweetheart and best friend. I always enjoyed our times together with you both. God bless you and your family to help you through this difficult time. Sincerely Joanne Mayo
Joanne Mayo
saltlakecity, ut
Jason and family, We are deeply saddened to hear of Stormy's passing. May God be with you at this difficult time. We loved seeing him at soccer games when the girls played together, or football games with the boys. He was one of a kind and truly will be missed by many.
Shelli and Mark Varoz
Draper, Ut
Dear Carol, Jeff , Jason and family, Words cannot express the grief we feel for the loss of Stormy. A Butterfly lights beside us, like a sunbeam. And for a brief moment it's glory and beauty belong to our world .But then it flies on again , and though we wish it could have stayed, we feel so LUCKY to have seen it. Our blessings and love to all of you. Bonnie and Jeff
Bonnie and Jeff Roth
Wales, Wi
Carol, Have known Stormy since the days at Albertsons back in 1962 and the following years at Huish detergent where he sold them product. You were both good friends with my sister Joanne and Jimmy. Our prayers are with you. Robert and Kathy Mayo
robert mayo
sandy, ut
Carol, We were so very saddened to hear of Stormy's passing. Please know that you and your family are in our thoughts and prayers at this difficult time. Sending love and hugs your way!
Clyde and Dale Oefinger
South Jordan, UT
Jason,Noelle,Carol,Venice and Kai, It was an honor to know and be friends with Stormy. We are so sorry for this loss. Him and Larry are enjoying martinis together laughing about the time Stormy drove his boat up onto Larrys ramp. Who would've guessed all these years laters their boys would be best of friends. We love you guys so much, we hope your heart's are at peace.
Greg and Angie Harrawood
St. George, UT
Stormy: You are one of my mentors. I hope I did well by you. You always cared about what you did and were sincere about why you did it in whatever you did: family, customers, business associates, skiing, whatever. You will be sorely missed by all, especially me. Sonny
Sonny Replogle
sunset, tx
Carol, Jeff and Jason I'm so sorry for your loss. We had a lot of fun years being neighbors and friends, memories of trips to Lake Powell, caravanning in our motor homes CB handles of Camel Jockey and What about Bob. Years of memories with our boys growing up together. Stormy will be missed. My thoughts and prayers will be with you. Bob Svitak
Bob Svitak
Riverton, Ut
Stormy I remember the good old days at Geneva when I bought a lot of your product from xergon You were quite a good salesman and a class act . You really new your product and I will never forget you and your wonderful wife carol. May god be with you until we meet again Sterling and my wife Corrine
sterling m pierce
pleasant grove, ut
Jason and Stormy, I have fond childhood memories of hunting and fishing with you, me, stormy and my father. I will always cherish the memories we have shared at the Coke cabin. The Christensen family would like to wish you and your family the best wishes and say thanks for the fond memories and the best of times in the outdoors.
Kenney Christensen
Richfield, UT
Carol, I know how hard this has been for you and how strong and loving and dedicated you have been. You two were the perfect couple! My heart aches for you. Prayers for Peace.
Marsha Gilford
Murray, Ut
Carol, We just heard about Stormy last Saturday when we were in Helper decorating graves. I am so sorry for your loss. Please accept our heart felt sympathy. Paul Bottino
Paul Bottino
Ivins, Ut
it at least a dozen times to friends kids these days were just made dtrfefenily. I believe in some form of evolution and that it's apparent to me that children are being born more and more technologically advanced.I saw a clip on YouTube once of a little girl no more than 2 years of age playing with an iPad and using it correctly, and yet she didn't understand what to do with a magazine. She kept trying to swipe her fingers across it and touch the images as she would using the iPad. I think that video speaks volumes in reference to my claims.While we're seemingly being born more technologically advanced, I do have concerns that we're dumbing down . On the one hand, it's amazing to see a child pick up what we consider to be an extremely advanced piece of technology and use it. On the other hand, it's considered advanced technology specifically for its ease of use. So who's to say if it's really positive or negative in that case?Still, I found the article to be incredibly moving. It touched my heart and I believe such technology is best spent on children with special needs. They are the ones who need it not us folks who are just kind of lazy. *grins*
Marisol
JXKLhpyIIeXprIQkSc, KM
Carol, you may not remember us as Stormy's geography buddies, but what a great man and great times we had at the U. The Air Force took us away, and we lost touch. You have our sincere condolences, and so sorry we could not find time to regather and ski and golf and speak of things geographical. You have our prayers Steve and Gil
Steve Miller and Gil Mace
Alpine, UT