Vimala Meta Drews

August 18, 2005 - June 21, 2023

Vimala Meta Drews left the world on June 21, 2023, just short of her 18th birthday. She was born in Salt Lake City, UT, on August 18, 2005 to Monisha Pasupathi and Frank Drews. She grew up in Millcreek City, and had just graduated from Skyline High School – feeling proud to have succeeded in that challenge. 

She was an incandescent person who changed everything she encountered. Her joy and laughter were like the sun after a storm – blinding, beautiful, and touching everything around her with a golden glow. But her rages were white hot, her sadness deep and dark, her fears existential and bone-shaking. Leaving these ups and downs behind, she found the peace that she longed for. 

She was a fashionista from the earliest days – checking out footwear at Hogle Zoo at the age of 3. Fortunately she evolved from her early tee-shirt hair period into a talent with make-up and her own unique tastes. She was wickedly sharp and smart, and had sophisticated tastes in music and entertainment. She loved big and wholeheartedly, and although she gave everyone she loved a hard time, she was also our fiercest advocate and protector. And she made all of us laugh so hard our stomachs ached. 

She leaves behind parents Monisha Pasupathi and Frank Drews, her sister, Emma Arundhati Drews, grandparents Meta & Udo Uhlenwinkel and Alice and V. Pasupathi, aunts Vimala Pasupathi and Sabine Drews, uncles Ben Armintor and Matthias Drews, and cousins Lotte, Paula, and Leonie Drews, as well as boyfriend Dylan Robbins and many friends. 

A memorial event will take place on August 18, 2023, at Starks Funeral Parlor from 6:00 pm – 8:00 pm. Memories and condolences can be shared here. In lieu of flowers, donations can be made to the National Education Alliance for Borderline Personality Disorder by clicking the “Donate” link above.

 

In Loving Memory

Dear Monesha and Frank, We were so shocked and saddened to hear of Vimmy's death. Words feel very inadequate at times like this, but know that we are thinking of you and extend our deepest sympathy to you and your family. Kirsten and Craig.

Kirsten Timms

Millcreek, Ut

Dear Monesha & Frank Our heartfelt condolences to hear the passing of your beloved daughter at such a young age. My family and I pray for your stength during this difficult time. May her soul rest in peace.  God bless  Lisa and Styn

Styn Jamu

SLC, UT

Dear Monesha, Frank, and Thomas, My heart is aching for you guys. I am so incredibly sad to hear about Vimmy's passing. Her obituary was spot on, I loved her spunky, confident, and tenacious ways. I vividly remember her impassioned speech about Michelle Obama for her third grade autobiography project. Holding y'all close in my heart. She was radiant.  With love, Cassi 

Cassi Lanie

Millcreek, ut

Dear Monisha and Frank, My deepest condolences to you and your family. I am glad to have learned a little bit about Vimmy through the eyes of her loved ones. Thank you for sharing her with us. Sincerely, Jackie Chen

Jackie Chen

Salt Lake City, UT

Dear Monesha and Frank, I’m so so sorry to learn of Vimmy’s passing. Her vivaciousness and laughter could be heard up and down the halls of McGillis.

Jan Lundquist

nan, nan

Monisha and Frank, what a beautifully written passage about Vimmy - even though I didn't have the honor of meeting her, your words about her reflect just how very special and dear she was to so many. I hope that you are surrounded with daily reminders of her light, her humor, and her love, always. Vimmy, rest in perfect peace,  and I hope you can feel how much your family and friends continue to love you.  Sending comfort and peace, Anu

Anu Asnaani

Salt Lake City, UT

Dear Monisha and Frank, so terribly sorry about Vimmy! I have so many lovely memories of her: picking pumpkins in the Fall, playing dolls in my living room (thank you for rescuing me, Frank), picking flowers for Monisha for mother's day, dinner with my brother and his family when they visited.  It was such a treat to watch your kids grow up! A tragic loss of someone with much potential.  With love to you both and all your family, Kate and Lynn

Kate Johnson

Millcreek, UT

Vim was one of the mosty genuine people I knew. I met her at Zupas when I hired her and got to work with her. She then followed me to pretty bird and the team here got to know and love her so much. We will miss her so much and we are so sorry for your loss. You raised a wonderful human being. RIP Vim. We love you and will miss you deeply. 

Jessica Fallows

West jordan, ut

I have known Vimmy since I was a little girl, I met her when I was about 6 years old. We had a long relationship that ended in us drifting apart. That being said, I am so blessed to have known such a strong-willed and deep feeling human. This obituary describes Vimmy and her strengths and struggles so well. She loved deeply and felt deeply which at times made things hard, I have never seen someone so strong though. The way that she pushed through every challenge despite how she struggled so hard, she never gave up. Even though there were times where it felt like giving up she continued to push through the hardships. It hurts my heart that she left this world being in a better place than she had been in for a while, however I hope that she found the peace that she so longingly was looking for. I am so thankful for the experiences I had with Vimmy, hard and good ones and I will always be affected and inspired by her strength. I give my condolences to all who loved her and will be praying for her family and friends. 

Abby Barnhart

Salt Lake City, UT

Vimmy was a force to be reckoned with, and her spunk made her incredibly fun to teach in middle school. My heart breaks for this loss to the world and to your family. Sending all the warmth and love I have.

Sarah (White) Coffey

Salt Lake City, UT

Dear Monisha, Frank and Emma, I was so sad to hear of Vimmy's death and have been thinking about all of you for weeks. I remember her best from when she was in Rosie's class at the Montessori, where she was excited and fabulous and at times a little bossy.  Beth (and Kellie and Rosie)

Elizabeth Clement

Salt Lake City, UT

Dear Frank and Monesha - I am so sad to hear about Vimala. I did not know her, but I only heard stories from Frank when the she was young. Such losses are without words so I can only say that my heart feels for you the heaviness of such a loss.  Charlene  

Charlene Weir

Salt Lake City, Ut

Dear Monisha, Frank, and family, We were extremely saddened to learn that Vimala passed away. Thank you for sharing a bit about her life and spirit in the tribute you wrote. We’ve made a donation in her memory. Please accept our deep condolences and warmest regards.   Matt Euler and Denise Lash  

Matt Euler

Salt Lake City, UT

Vimmy was the closest friend I ever had. There was rarely a day where we would go without seeing each other, whether it was (probably too) late on a school night or at dawn. We learned from each other--she taught me how to be assertive, to be kinder to myself, and dress (she reminded me of this pretty often, too). In turn, she claimed I taught her dedication, resilience, and the strength in softness. Though we were nearly opposites and had our rough patches, we knew nothing could come between us being best friends. She was the safest person I knew and made me less afraid of the world around me. Vim, I think of you every minute and hope to bring half of the glow to people's lives that you brought to mine. 

Erin Hall

Salt Lake City, UT

Dear Aunt Monisha & Uncle Frank, I was deeply shocked and saddended to hear of Vimala's passing. I still hold vivd memories of her as a cute little kid with that mischevious twinkle in her eyes and a smile on her face. While no words can truly capture her loss, I would like you to know that my thoughts and prayers are with you in this difficult time. Always,

Sid

nan, nan

When my son started a new school out of cycle, where everyone else knew each other, Vimmy was a friend. She was kind. A friendly face. She even chatted to me at pick up. After all this time I remember her smile. I am so very sorry for your loss.

Karen Eilbeck

Salt Lake City, UT

Dear Monisha and Frank, Words really can't express how sorry I am that Vimi has left this world.  The loss of a child is truly the most painful.  Your tribute and pictures are lovely and show great love for each other.  Hold onto that love and those treasured memories.  Please know that I'm here for whatever you need at any time.  All the best, Cindy Berg

Cindy Berg

Salt Lake City, UT

Our hearts are heavy as we contemplate your loss. In our joy-filled memories, Vimala was the pixie little sister who always had something to say with a grin and a sparkle in her soulful eyes. The Pasupathi-Drews are forever in our hearts. May peace prevail and love endure. Mike Kari Aedan Liam

Kari Dineley & Mike Kimball

Millcreek, UT

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